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SparklyGrandma Sat 25-May-19 20:20:03

Hello everyone...

Elvive Fri 21-Jun-19 13:18:03

are you moving wot? Might there be something nice on the future?

wot Fri 21-Jun-19 14:54:02

Well, obviously that's why I'm hoping to do it!

Joce345 Fri 21-Jun-19 15:55:53

Don’t know what to say I am just one big mess today the dam fear will not go.. sorry every one just wish someone could help me sort my head out..hope every one is having a better day..

Anniebach Fri 21-Jun-19 16:52:26

No one who posts on this thread is alone Elvive, we are here for each other, it was the reason for Batty starting the Black Dog Gang, so we can share and support as a group.

And when shared openly it helps others to join the thread if they feel alone

Anniebach Fri 21-Jun-19 17:01:54

Doodle doubt I could recall the tables, but will certainly try x

Nonnie, sorry you are struggling x if nothing good to say still talk. Hugs

wot try Wales, ? x

Joce, you really are ‘going through the mill, it’s a battle isn’t it send hugs

Anniebach Fri 21-Jun-19 17:13:19

So sorry Elvive, I didn’t say , do share your Black Dog with us, we are here to listen, care , share and understand

Joce345 Fri 21-Jun-19 18:23:51

Thank you Annie x

Doodle Fri 21-Jun-19 21:24:31

Really down tonight. So worried about DGS. Quite exhausted with worry and my tinnitus is at orchestra volume! I know it is stress but can’t seem to calm down.
Hope you all having a better day.

Chewbacca Fri 21-Jun-19 21:37:58

It seems a lifetime ago when I wasn't anxious, afraid and tearful all the time. This isn't the real me. I'm fearful that the real me has gone forever and I'll be stuck as this worried, tearful and unhappy old woman for the rest of my life. I'd rather not be here than feel like this all the time.

Doodle Fri 21-Jun-19 21:42:57

Oh chewy I’m so sorry you feel like that. Do you have family to support you. Anxiety and worry is awful. Combined with the panic attacks. I have been trying to give myself a good talking to today. If it was my problem I might be able to deal with it better but because my anxiety is around my DGS I am having a job getting myself back on track. Take care my dear x

Anniebach Fri 21-Jun-19 21:46:08

Doodle, I would be the same about my grandchildren, I don’t suppose there is another school ?

Anniebach Fri 21-Jun-19 21:56:13

Chewie the real you is still there , under the anxiety, fears and tears .

I am so fearful of walking down the front path, yet I climbed Snowdon several times, walking holidays in Scotland, Yorkshire , North Wales.

The physical me couldn’t now but me that person is still within , and the same for you .

I had quite a difficult therapy session today but I learned from it .

We must not give up hope , not one of us x

Dawn22 Fri 21-Jun-19 22:02:04

Hi everyone

Let nothing disturb you,
Let nothing frighten you,
All things are passing;
- St Teresa of Avila

I find these words a great comfort as l hope others will too and when you really think about these words; they are true.

Best wishes from Dawn.

Anniebach Fri 21-Jun-19 22:11:50

Thank you Dawn, they are very comforting words

I like her quote on ‘courage ‘ too

Elvive Fri 21-Jun-19 22:12:43

Chin up chew. people care, you are not alone / PM me

Anniebach Fri 21-Jun-19 22:15:43

Would you like to share your fears Elvive ?

Doodle Fri 21-Jun-19 22:22:10

It’s not the first school it’s happened in annie. It’s an ongoing problem. He’s ‘different’. I just wish they’d leave him in peace. I pray every night for him to be safe and happy. I just worry for him and his mum and dad.

Anniebach Fri 21-Jun-19 22:27:01

It’s so wrong Doddle and the school ignores it , grrrrr

We are here for you x

Elvive Fri 21-Jun-19 22:29:19

Blimey Annie , I wouldn't know where to start. Isolation is awful though so if anybody wants to chat to me they can either here or in a message. It's a nasty thing alright, depression.

Anniebach Fri 21-Jun-19 22:32:15

You have depression Elvive ? I am sorry .

If you wish to share we will listen

Dawn22 Fri 21-Jun-19 22:42:30

Thanks Annie
I looked up those words on courage. I did not know them. Yes very applicable to life in general.
Dawn xx
Sleep well everyone.

Anniebach Sat 22-Jun-19 13:05:20

Hi all x

We have sunshine , does it help ?

Nandalot Sat 22-Jun-19 13:26:23

Lovely words, Dawn. Thank you.
Doodle, do you have the radio etc on? My DD who has tinnitus following an accident, cannot bear to be in a quiet room as the noise helps to drown out the tinnitus.
Annie, sorry therapy was painful, but you seem to have found something positive in it.

Anniebach Sat 22-Jun-19 19:25:22

Nandalot bringing up things one chooses to blank out is
bound to be upsetting .

Hope nanny is enjoying her holiday

Joce345 Sun 23-Jun-19 10:12:39

Morning all, hope it a good one for all.
I have just been down my garden Annie picking fresh fruit for breakfast, strawberry blueberry and raspberry yummy. Not felt like eating for last few day but enjoyed breakfast this morning.. have you managed to get in your garden Annie I lost track of what’s happening with every one for a while there hopefully getting back on track a bit ??

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