I am not talking about those poor souls who find themselves dangerously obese, but those of us in the middle who the books tell us that I am (in my case) just under 2 stone overweight with a waistline that is a lot off target.
I have been this weight ever since I went through the menopause about 30 years ago. (It was relatively early in my mid-forties)
I have disliked my body image ever since and have struggled with dieting with no success.
Well, I was called into the surgery for a complete health check a month ago, and apart from a hiccup over high blood pressure (due it was decided to stress over looking after my mother) I am completely healthy. BP normal, heart normal, kidneys fine, pancreas working fine, liver function normal (I have a glass of wine a night) cholesterol normal.
So I have finally come to the conclusion that my constant struggle to lose those pounds is a total waste of my well-being.
Instead I shall concentrate on feeling as happy and content with myself and entirely ignore the fact that I look nowhere near the ideal body image portrayed in everything you look at but accept me as me.