OH now on end-of-life care.

Dear luckygirl, always in my prayers x

Love and strength to you all luckygirl, such a difficult time. Xx

Have a peaceful night.

Sleep well Lucky. Night, night.

Marmight ?

Sending love and prayers xx

Words are so inadequate at times like these. You have been a pillar of strength and no one could have done more.

Take comfort from all the messages from people who have followed your journey and admire your resolve to give your DH the best possible care over the years.

Take care

Morning lucky. I think you are right to try to keep some normality in your life. Mum stayed with us for quite a while after she was put on end of life care.

Sending love and support.

Good morning lucky, what Kitty has said.
Hoping and for praying for peace for your husband, you and your family.

Thank you - all your words are helping to prop me up and I am grateful for this.

Take care Lucky, thinking of you

Thinking of you all.Lucky ???

Thinking of you Lucky today and every day

I’m glad you have someone to share the strain, Luckygirl. It was a bit like that with my dad, although it was only one day. My mum and brother and I sat round his hospital bed chatting and even laughing at times at fond memories. He rarely roused (pneumonia following cancer) but it was somehow homely to be there talking as though everything was normal.

Thinking of you lucky

I’m glad you have your daughters with you at this difficult time

Luckygirl, I am so sorry. Thinking of you.

Luckygirl, Daughter & I are thinking of you. xx

I'm so sorry, Luckygirl, I know this is heartbreaking for you as I've been there myself. Part of you wants DH to stay alive but you don't want him to suffer so you wish it was over too. It's a terrible state of limbo.
Please be assured that most deaths are peaceful and when he's gone you will feel sad that he's no longer around but relieved that he's no longer suffering. This is the only positive way to look at it. My sympathies to you.

What a terrible time for you, I really hope that you can sleep tonight. Thinking of you both.

Luckygirl Thinking of you , and hoping you get some rest xxx

Thinking of you.death is a blessing at this time.

Thinking of you Lucky, your daughters and your husband xx

Thank you.
He was a little more alert today, but miserable. I have started feeding him ice lollies - he likes the taste and it is only a tiny bit of liquid to swallow. Trying to take in liquid makes him choke and cough. Understood a bit more of the occasional things he tried to say today. He cannot really move at all.

What he needs is peace - he has no quality of life now, poor man. I really hope this does not drag on too long - there is no way back from this place.