I've just lost an elderly friend too. She was taken into hospital with breathing problems and died there.
However, the physician gave the family an interesting factsheet:
Being diagnosed with C-19, even if you subsequently pass away, does NOT necessarily mean C-19 killed you. Some of the 'mortality and reason' figures are being questioned.
Elderly people without C-19 are going to die of respiratory and other infections, as they do each year (this is how my friend died). Don't let media scare stories affect you.
The extra stress and fear imposed on people by C-19 is a significant factor in making people more vulnerable to infection than they might be - especially in the elderly.
Panic and chronic worry can lower your immune system.
Try to think logically and calmly - this is a situation we cannot change. Just do your best.
If, since lockdown, you have not shown any symptoms of C-19, then if you stay at home, you are unlikely to contract it. That doesn't mean you won't get a cold or flu, these are air-borne, droplet infections which spread in the same way C-19 does.
So if, after a 10-day isolation period, you begin to cough or sniffle, please don't think your next phone call has to be to the undertaker. Take normal precautions to ease symptoms and make yourself more comfortable.
If you feel you have been exposed to the virus, contact your doctor, hospital healthline or the emergency numbers you've been given in your locality. They will need to isolate you and trace your movements and the people with whom you came into contact.