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Grade 4 rectal prolapse.

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soop Sat 20-Nov-21 16:45:20

Hello, I wonder if any one is suffering with this ailment. I am eighty. Have been treated at a variety of hospitals over a period of ten years. First surgery carried out in 2003. Am between a rock and a hard place. Can have a colostomy at a private BMI hospital for £25,000, or wait indefinitely on the NHS waiting list with no date for the foreseeable. Every day is a challenge. I appreciate that there are countless people far worse off than I am. I would however be most grateful of any first hand information that can help me to manage this dire situation. Thank you.

MayBeMaw Mon 13-Dec-21 18:55:56

Like the recent reaction to bump you mean? grin

Elegran Mon 13-Dec-21 18:42:17

You would be unusual, then Maw. The most common reaction I have seen to a new poster seeing something they didn't understand (such as an acronym in daily use all over the internet) seems to be to think that no-one should use it, not that they could find out what it means.

MayBeMaw Mon 13-Dec-21 18:06:49

Aveline

If I was reading this thread for the first time and all I saw was 'Bump' I'd think its not for me and would move on. However, if there was an encouraging message or some information I'd read on. Over the course of this thread I've posted most days as have others in order to keep the thread trending.

But you are not , Aveline
You have been a member for some years and know exactly what the term signifies.
If I were on GN for the first time and there was some term or convention I didn’t understand, I would make it my business to find out.

Aveline Mon 13-Dec-21 18:03:45

If I was reading this thread for the first time and all I saw was 'Bump' I'd think its not for me and would move on. However, if there was an encouraging message or some information I'd read on. Over the course of this thread I've posted most days as have others in order to keep the thread trending.

MayBeMaw Mon 13-Dec-21 17:59:14

Aveline

My problem with the word 'bumping' is that it is more subtle to post a response with more content than just 'bumping'. This keeps the thread going in a more positive way.

Subtle Aveline ? tchconfused
“Bump” is clear enough.

Effective.

MayBeMaw Mon 13-Dec-21 17:56:13

EnaShrples
We could just say "lets keep it going ladies and gents". That does sound nicer than "bump". It is going well isnt it

When there is a recognised convention, I don’t see what objection there can be to using it.
New members often ask about emojis, “acronyms”. how to write usernames in bold etc, but you soon get used to it.
And yes, it is going well if you re talking about the crowdfunding or progress with Soop ‘s consultant.
What else could you mean?

Dickens Mon 13-Dec-21 17:54:08

EnaSharples

We could just say "lets keep it going ladies and gents". That does sound nicer than "bump". It is going well isnt it.

Nowt wrong with "bump"... it's regularly used on forums where a little help might be needed in getting something noticed - or just to keep a thread going.

... been using that technical terminology grin for the last 20 odd years!

Dickens Mon 13-Dec-21 17:50:33

soop

Dear you lovely lot, we both slept more soundly last night. The light at the end of the tunnel doesn't seem unreachable since the most welcome phone call. . smile flowers

I have been following this without comment - but feeling much sympathy for you.

So pleased now there is more hope! You need that!

Chewbacca Mon 13-Dec-21 17:37:57

BUMPING!!! wink

Kalu Mon 13-Dec-21 17:36:05

EnaSharples

We could just say "lets keep it going ladies and gents". That does sound nicer than "bump". It is going well isnt it.

Did you read Soop’s reply??
Let’s NOT turn this supportive thread into a competition as to who comes up with a ‘nicer’ term to bump good news please.

TillyTrotter Mon 13-Dec-21 17:35:19

Bumping is a familiar term in technology and as long as we keep the thread going, it’s all good ?
Great news about the painting. Your GS Will is a star soop .

Kalu Mon 13-Dec-21 17:20:55

I am feeling more excited and positive for you by the day Soop. Not long now until your troublesome undercarriage will be a thing of the past.
Good to know your new hearing aids are definitely working. ?

Like Soop, I have no problem with the term ‘bumping’. I see it’s usage all over GN and MN. Neither is it in good form to have a pop at anyone who chooses to use this term, especially when it was kindly meant.

EnaSharples Mon 13-Dec-21 17:19:12

We could just say "lets keep it going ladies and gents". That does sound nicer than "bump". It is going well isnt it.

OnwardandUpward Mon 13-Dec-21 17:04:31

How wonderful about the painting, Soop!

Apologies if anyone is offended by the term "Bumping", it's a well known thing that people do to keep a post active and not meant to be offensive. flowers

Kamiso Mon 13-Dec-21 17:03:51

I don’t know if this has been covered but I rang 111 when my GP surgery wasn’t answering the phone last week. She seemed to ask a lot of questions but I was shocked when she said she would send an ambulance! I was expecting a prescription! I was in for five days on a drip and lost count of all the injections plus two scans. Finally diagnosed with pancreatitis and due to go back for surgery in the new year.

Hope you get something resolved soon. Tell them just how bad it is!

OnwardandUpward Mon 13-Dec-21 17:02:42

£12,330

Bumping!

Aveline Mon 13-Dec-21 16:50:36

I did!

Calistemon Mon 13-Dec-21 16:29:45

I thought the term "bump" was the correct one to use to ensure that a thread doesn't drop off the active list. Is it not?
Not being on many sites, I have learnt that from GN.

It saves unnecessary waffle or brainwracking if I don't have anything useful to add.

I could be wrong of course.
We could think of an alternative.

Marydoll Mon 13-Dec-21 15:17:34

Knuckles duly rapped, Aveline. I will take a step back.
Sorry, Soop!

Aveline Mon 13-Dec-21 15:14:49

If you look back over the thread you will that a number of us have been doing just that.

Aveline Mon 13-Dec-21 15:13:34

My problem with the word 'bumping' is that it is more subtle to post a response with more content than just 'bumping'. This keeps the thread going in a more positive way.

soop Mon 13-Dec-21 14:31:52

Charleyg A newspaper journalist has approached us. Mr Soop has responded and he is still considering the offer.

soop Mon 13-Dec-21 14:29:58

Marydoll I'm perfectly happy with the word "Bumping". It's the thought that counts. grin

A stranger has just donated £175. He auctioned a painting of his and gave the proceeds to the Happy Christmas cause.
I asked family members did they know the name. Once again, it is a friend of our grandson, Will, who has helped us tirelessly from the very start of the journey. smile

Charleygirl5 Mon 13-Dec-21 12:23:16

soop to go the extra mile perhaps Mr. soop with help could go further afield- maybe the local newspaper?

Marydoll Mon 13-Dec-21 11:58:12

Aveline

Is there a more tactful way of putting it than just 'bumping'?

I apologise if I have been tactless. Perhaps you could suggest another term, Aveline. However, that's the one which has always been used to keep threads on the active list.