Good afternoon everyone. I’ve been following your stories and I’m so pleased people are making good progress after replacements. I’d like to ask a couple of questions. I’ve been told I need both hips replaced. I have degeneration in my right hip and my left hip is always warm to the touch and has been ‘sticking’ which means occasionally I have to try and manipulate it to help me get off the loo or out of a chair. I was told a couple of years ago, just at the start of the pandemic that I needed bariatric surgery before they would consider hip surgery. It was also felt to be too risky for me in hospital at that time because of my weight and covid. It was before the vaccine and I was very frightened of going to any hospital.
I’m 67 and after attending virtual monthly meetings prior to bariatric surgery I’ve decided I don’t want a bypass. I had sepsis last time I had surgery and I feel wary of ops. However, my quality of life has been really reduced. I need a walker or crutches in the house and a wheelchair on the few times I go out. I’ve only been to hospital or doctor appointments and I’ve been for one meal with friends and to the opticians during the past 2 years.
I was wondering what is the criteria for the hip hop. I am on co-codamol, which is not actually helping with pain management. I struggle going up and downstairs and I’m only having 3 drinks a day, as the loo is upstairs. I’ve found that cold packs on my hips helps a bit with the pain, but I find that the worst pain is actually in my right calf and my leg does give way, which is very scary. I wondered if this is a symptom of arthritis and what, if anything, other people do about it. I am a size 24, which is on the smaller size on the bariatric waiting list. I don’t think I can wait for another 3 years before I’m considered for hip surgery. It’s at least 2 years for the bypass and then another year to recover from that.
I have days when I’m quite upbeat, but other days I’m very depressed. Thankfully, I do have a most supportive partner, who works from home and who has taken on most of the household chores and I can do some things whilst seated. So sorry that this is a miserable post, I needed to let it all out and I know this is a very supportive forum, so thank you for listening. Hoping you are all continuing to improve daily. ?