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Have you got a "Grab bag" ?Everyone needs one!

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Yammy Wed 07-Sept-22 12:29:45

Earlier this week DH had to be admitted to the hospital in an emergency, and the paramedics asked if he had a "Grab bag".
I had no idea what they meant. They then explained and when I mentioned it to DD she had heard of it and added a few things of her own.
It's a small zipper hold hall or shopping bag that will go in a bedside locker.
In it, you need to keep an up-to-date supply of your toiletries, toothbrush and shampoo, and razor for men in a small toiletry bag. Spare night ware, slippers, underwear, a towel a clean shirt or t-shirt and most importantly a list of your current medications.
The bag needs to be handy to find the bottom of a wardrobe was suggested.
You also need to tell your next of kin where the bags are kept.
My DD does not live near me and also suggested I gave her the telephone number of our next-door neighbour who holds a key. She could then direct them to where the bags are.
It took two frantic hours yesterday getting DH's bag ready. while we waited for an ambulance. The bag was on top of a wardrobe I could not reach, his toilet bag was tucked away in a cupboard and he thought he might need new razor blades. Luckily he is only on one medication so I sent it with him.
It was also suggested you keep current medications in a small zipped pouch in which you write down the whereabouts on the medication list. Don't use a bag you take on holiday or your usual toiletry bag.
Believe me, it sounds alarmist but I am certainly going to set one up for each of us. Looking after his medical needs whilst listening to what he needed and where they were I did not think I had been married for over 40 years.

argymargy Thu 08-Sept-22 17:10:53

Sorry but I think it's a very pessimistic approach to life, to go to the trouble of keeping a bag full of stuff just in case you have to go to hospital. And for almost all of those who think they are healthy and suddenly have a heart attack/stroke, they were kidding themselves.

Germanshepherdsmum Thu 08-Sept-22 17:14:49

Well, I hope you're not one of those people kidding themselves argymargy, and that you don't meet with an accident. I hope you're not one of those people who don't make wills because they think they're fit and well and it would be tempting fate - and leave a big mess behind them. Solicitors love people like that!

Alioop Thu 08-Sept-22 17:16:09

I kept one when I was having trouble with kidney stone pain. I got them lasered and the bag has been emptied and put away again. I suppose I should really kept it though as I live on my own and nobody would know where things are if I was taken to hospital.

loopyloo Thu 08-Sept-22 17:16:30

At least take your front door key,dressing gown and phone! I was allowed to go home and had to get my daughter to meet me there to pay the taxi and let me in!

Caleo Thu 08-Sept-22 18:14:18

I headed my list of medications with 'Advance Directive in place'.

Deedaa Thu 08-Sept-22 18:19:42

While DH was ill I always had a hospital bag ready with pyjamas, wash bag, a list of medication and so on. If we had to do a sudden rush to hospital I just had to grab his meds and we were good to go.

Cabbie21 Thu 08-Sept-22 20:40:38

Excellent idea. Must do this tomorrow. You never know.

Iam64 Thu 08-Sept-22 20:51:52

I’d never heard of this. It reminds me of the hospital bag we kept towards the end of pregnancies.
It’s an excellent idea, thanks

Callistemon21 Thu 08-Sept-22 21:55:09

Remember to replace any medication regularly in case it goes out of date.

When fires were approaching last time we were in Australia I wished I'd kept a bag packed with essentials. Luckily the fire breaks held.

It's a good idea

Callistemon21 Thu 08-Sept-22 22:03:44

I took the toothpaste out of mine this morning, must remember to replace it and double check what's in there.

Sawsage2 Thu 08-Sept-22 22:13:16

I hate hospitals and hope never to go in one for anything so haven't got a bag ready (I know, I know)

Callistemon21 Thu 08-Sept-22 22:24:48

It's an insurance Sawsage
If you pack one ready you hope you'll never need it

Normandygirl Thu 08-Sept-22 22:24:53

argymargy

Sorry but I think it's a very pessimistic approach to life, to go to the trouble of keeping a bag full of stuff just in case you have to go to hospital. And for almost all of those who think they are healthy and suddenly have a heart attack/stroke, they were kidding themselves.

There's nothing " pessimistic" about it, it's no different to being prepared for say unexpected guests, unexpected weather or your car breaking down.
A grab bag is useful for lots of different scenarios . Just recently I had an emergency call at 4 in the morning as my daughter had gone into premature labour and I was needed to babysit the other children and I was stuck there for the next 72 hours.

Doodle Thu 08-Sept-22 22:39:11

When my DH was rushed into hospital with sepsis we were on holiday. I was completely flustered. Couldn’t find his phone didn’t know where we were (holiday address didn’t have postcode on paperwork and the site reception didn’t know either!!) ambulance arrived in pouring rain on dark night and took DH off missing half of his essentials. Mid Covid not only couldn’t I go with him I couldn’t visit either.

Came home after that and made up a grab bag for us both. List of DHs operations, medication, phone charger extension lead as plugs usually a long way away in hospital. Toiletries and a list of things from home to put in at the last minute.
All kept in cupboard above bed so at hand. Great idea.

Callistemon21 Thu 08-Sept-22 22:40:55

argymargy

Sorry but I think it's a very pessimistic approach to life, to go to the trouble of keeping a bag full of stuff just in case you have to go to hospital. And for almost all of those who think they are healthy and suddenly have a heart attack/stroke, they were kidding themselves.

I take it you weren't a Girl Guide or Boy Scout, argymargy!

growstuff Fri 09-Sept-22 01:50:55

argymargy

Sorry but I think it's a very pessimistic approach to life, to go to the trouble of keeping a bag full of stuff just in case you have to go to hospital. And for almost all of those who think they are healthy and suddenly have a heart attack/stroke, they were kidding themselves.

Well, I had a sudden heart attack, but hadn't thought of myself as particularly unhealthy - non-smoker, rare drinker and not overweight. Obviously I was kidding myself! hmm

NotAGran55 Fri 09-Sept-22 06:32:39

I’m guessing that those of us who are prepared with a bag have been caught out in the past?

I went to my GP, was sent straight to hospital and stayed there for 10 days without any warning. It was a right faff for my husband to find my stuff with 2 young children to look after too.

karmalady Mon 12-Sept-22 18:01:40

A grab bag is a good idea and not just for hospitals.

I had a smoke alarm go off at 5.30am the other day and it gave me a big fright, everything in the house was ok and I replaced the batteries next day. At 5.30 and that sudden alarm, I was very groggy, hard to think straight

The next day had me thinking, one of those reality checks, yes I would have grabbed my small suitcase containing all my paperwork. Then I realised that I would have needed some basic clothes and toiletries as in a grab bag. I have the right bag, which would fit into a locker.

Yammy Mon 12-Sept-22 18:31:48

Glad to say DH is home and did not need the bag the 1st and 2 visit after all, like a good girl guide next time I will" be prepared".Thanks for the kind wishes.
I've started and nearly completed the bags.
All I can say to argymargy is I hope she never has to use one or someone close needs one. I can remember visiting my late mother who lived a long way from us and fell down some steps and was admitted to hospital. Her niece had to find all the necessities and my mother was sitting in her oldest nightie and slippers with a disgusting toilet bag. My cousin had found the bag waiting to go to the local recycling.
Also when young I had a dd admitted as a very urgent case with a police escort, I should have learned my lesson from these two occasions.blush it never happens to you until it does.

M0nica Mon 12-Sept-22 18:35:29

No grab bag, but when we both needed one, on separate occasions it took barely 5 minutes to assemble.

All I put in mine was night attire, wash bag - and I took my handbag, less my wallet, That contains, telephone, kindle and a small make-up bag. What else is needed?

All the other things can be brought in later, as and when required.

growstuff Mon 12-Sept-22 18:57:44

That's not so easy if you live on your own and nobody knows where you keep anything.

storynanny Mon 12-Sept-22 19:06:55

I’m going to start putting one together - especially as like Normandy girl, I’d be waiting days for mrstorynanny to find stuff I wanted!

Marydoll Mon 12-Sept-22 19:53:42

When I had to go into hospital urgently, one of questions the paramedics asked, was did I have a hospital bag.

There was no time to look for anything.

GrannyLaine Mon 12-Sept-22 20:25:43

Doodle

When my DH was rushed into hospital with sepsis we were on holiday. I was completely flustered. Couldn’t find his phone didn’t know where we were (holiday address didn’t have postcode on paperwork and the site reception didn’t know either!!) ambulance arrived in pouring rain on dark night and took DH off missing half of his essentials. Mid Covid not only couldn’t I go with him I couldn’t visit either.

Came home after that and made up a grab bag for us both. List of DHs operations, medication, phone charger extension lead as plugs usually a long way away in hospital. Toiletries and a list of things from home to put in at the last minute.
All kept in cupboard above bed so at hand. Great idea.

Doodle maybe consider downloading the What3Words app on your phone? Enormously useful for pinpointing your location in many situations.

Doodle Mon 12-Sept-22 20:30:21

GrannyLaine thank you. Yes we do have that now. Amazing in times of panic how your brain stops working. Good advice. Many thanks.