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I haven’t had the Covid vaccine and I don’t know what to do now?

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BengalCatOwner Tue 11-Oct-22 18:54:56

I did not take the Covid vaccine as I had a really bad reaction to my first flu jab when I reached that age to get a free one. I was in hospital for three days, and even advised by the doctor not to have flu jabs again.

Sadly I lost two friends with covid cited as a reason, and I have been very careful since March 2020, wearing a mask in crowded spaces and not going out much. All my friends have had their initial two injections, most of them only had a sore arm, some even no symptoms. I had booked myself in twice, but for some reason my experience after the flu injection made me chicken out. Then I started hearing about people getting ill and testing positive even after the vaccination.

I started doing some research on the internet and there are quite a few respectable doctors and scientists warning of the vaccine, how it has emergency authorisation only, the mRNA technique was trialled for other illnesses but never made it to get licensed as it did not work or there were too many side effects.

I hear of people, young people, who have heart attacks, stroke, chronic fatigue. Cancers which go from being discovered to end stage within months. Women experiencing months of menstrual problems, women having periods again years after menopause!

Withing my circle of friends I know one lady whose daughter had a still born at 8 months, who was told by midwives they have seen an increase in this happening!

The mother of another friend, her mild dementia got worse rapidly and they had to put her into a home.

All my friends are getting the booster, and urge me to get my first vaccination. I tell them of my concerns and they say, no, it is totally different to flu, this is a new technique, it is safe, so many people around the world had it and they are all fine!

We are planning to do a cruise next year around the med, something I have always wanted to do, but I need to have had two injections for booking! I am really at a loss what to do!

growstuff Sat 15-Oct-22 09:56:03

growstuff

I do know that a disproportionately high number of care home staff lost their lives because they caught Covid.

I know - and I don't really understand why people from some ethnic groups were so reluctant to be vaccinated. I'm sure somebody will explain.

I was asking how many "tens of thousands" of care workers had died from being vaccinated, which is what MadeinYorkshire was implying.

Quite honestly, if I had worked in a high risk job, such as care work, and belonged to a group which was known to be at higher risk of being badly affected, I would have jumped at the offer to be vaccinated, whether or not my employer told me to have it.

I don't know what the rationale is for cruise companies to insist that passengers are vaccinated. It won't stop the virus being transmitted, but I guess it means that they won't have a ship full of seriously ill people. Their rules and people have to accept them.

M0nica Sat 15-Oct-22 11:17:58

growstuff more importantly cruise company's insist all passengers take LF test the morning of the cruise.

Although having just returned froma cruise with COVID, as did DH, and DD. I would have preferred it if we had had to do the test in the presence of nurse or similar immediately before we joined the ship.

People can lie about having done tests.

Suzybea Sun 16-Oct-22 06:43:06

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Whiff Sun 16-Oct-22 07:16:20

I for one do not bother with research or statics. But I will not run the risk of catching Covid so am having my booster next week and my flu jab this week.

Saying Covid jabs gave people cancer is irresponsible. It's like people saying mobile phones give you cancer.

My husband died at the age of 47 from malignant melanoma grade 4. He was told he wouldn't have 5 years he lived 3. So do I blame the sun or our generations lack of sun cream he was born in 1957 for his cancer of course not as that is ludicrous.

Either have the Covid jab, flu jab , pneumonia and shingles jab plus all the other health checks we can have or not.

Statics are just that numbers not people. We all have common sense use it. If you decide not to have the Covid jab I hope you consider other people and wear a mask when out of your home and at least do a lateral flow test every week.

M0nica Sun 16-Oct-22 07:22:29

SuzyB So much knowledge and erudition and not a single link to any academic source, good bad or indifferent.

You could be anybody posing as anything and writing a post like this. I am sure I could do the same, given the time and inclination. As other GN members will tell you, I can do the high academic style like the best of them (and very boring it is too), at least we have that much in common). But when I do it. I too have done my research and prove it by regular links to reliable sources. I also know, from all my researches that a lack of references is a sure sign the poster is trying to pull the wool over our eyes.

Redo your post with all the references to the research you quote and we might give it some serious consideration, for the moment however, I am going to treat your post the way I would treat the work of other medical charlatans, like Andrew Wakefield. A qualified doctor and research scientist, who bent and falsified research, for his personal benefit.

volver Sun 16-Oct-22 08:11:21

Respectable and highly qualified Drs and Scientists all around the World

Interestingly that's the second time this exact phrase has appeared on GN this week. Its almost like it's been copied verbatim from somewhere ?

M0nica Sun 16-Oct-22 08:39:47

volver capitalised in all the same places - another sign that it is a load of twaddle.

Lathyrus Sun 16-Oct-22 09:39:34

Good business for a litigation solicitor though. Putting stuff like this about will encourage a lot of claims.

Follow the money!

volver Sun 16-Oct-22 09:42:05

You know Lathyrus I had a post half written wondering why people do this. Now I know! Thank you!

Lathyrus Sun 16-Oct-22 09:46:52

I’m such a cynic?

Lilikemaho Sun 16-Oct-22 09:53:56

SUZYB i totally agree with you and WHIFF i really think you should do some research i posted before about watching (safe and effective) on YouTube seems no one did very interesting

volver Sun 16-Oct-22 09:55:09

WATCHING YOUTUBE IS NOT RESEARCH!!!

Lathyrus Sun 16-Oct-22 10:03:04

YouTube?

My OH is very hooked on all the stuff about aliens at the moment.

Apparently they live at the bottom of the sea so we can’t find them…..

They’re here for research purposes?

Elegran Sun 16-Oct-22 10:04:53

If Suzy is going to tell us about every person she knows who had bad health after the CoVid jab, I will tell you about MY health, which is exceedingly good after having all the available vaccinations. In the last three years I have had no side effects at all, and hardly any other illnesses either, except a slight cold or two. So my immune system has the same protection against all infections as it had before and possibly more.

On the other hand, when CoVid was at its height before the vaccines were released, two friends of my son, out of the four who caught it together on holiday, were hospitalised and very ill, several others who had had the virus are still suffering from after effects, and the husband of a friend has died from it. Since vaccination was introduced, no-one I know has been hospitalised or died.

This is anecdotal - as are Suzy's stories - but there is authority for stating that statistically 1 in 2 people will develop some form of cancer during their lifetime, ( www.nhs.uk/conditions/cancer/ ) and the BMJ says that "Those who had had covid-19 had a 72% increased risk of heart failure, 63% increased risk of heart attack, and 52% increased risk of stroke compared with controls." ( www.bmj.com/content/376/bmj.o378 ) That is those who actually had CoVid.

Elegran Sun 16-Oct-22 10:09:29

I do hope that Suzy posts links to the sources of her research, so that they can be evaluated by the many people on Gransnet who are experienced in doing peer reviews of original studies. That will be so much more useful than rehashes of stuff from Youtube.

Farzanah Sun 16-Oct-22 10:21:38

I’ve had 5 covid vaccs and feel fine. I am however at the age where statistically I’m more likely to be prone to illnesses such as cancer, heart attack and stroke. If or when I do I won’t be blaming the covid vaccine.

I used to vaccinate children, and remember one day a child was brought for vaccs, and had a slight cold. I decided to postpone the vacc until the following week. During that week the child started fitting and was admitted to hospital!

Without a doubt the vaccine would have been implicated if given.

Elegran Sun 16-Oct-22 10:42:55

When studies are done on the side effects of drugs and procedures, those participating are asked to record every single health detail that follows, whether they are in the active group or the one that has the placebo. Once the results are analysed, it is often found that the placebo section recorded as many "side effects" as the active section.

Reading the full account of the research makes that clear, and the significance of any correlation is given an "r value" to show how likely it is that the "side effect" is due to the thing being tested or is just a co-incidence. However, a non-statistical journalist may be struck by the list of health problems encountered and publish them as caused by the substance under test.

That is why it is so important to go to the original source report of the trial for accurate information - and to refer back to that original report when passing the facts on, so that others know you haven't got the wrong end of the stick.

Normandygirl Sun 16-Oct-22 11:30:19

There is now thankfully much more peer reviewed research and select committee enquiries from all over the world to enable people to make a much more informed decision than they could at the start of the vaccination rollout. If people want to ignore this research and their findings, that's up to them of course.
The latest findings from the EU's select committee on the Pfizer vaccines for example, was that no trials were ever carried out on the effect of transmission of the Virus. They had no time to do so as they had a £2 billion investment at stake and had to move quickly.
So, the question is, why did all the world leaders insist that getting vaccinated had to be done in order to save others and stop the spread? Indeed, it was the whole basis of the vaccine passports, which were implemented across Europe under the threat of prison sentences in some countries.
Why did Pfizer not correct these statements immediately?

www.youtube.com/watch?v=5A2ZkW8pUWg

It was a very long hearing but the answer to the question of trials regarding transmission comes at @58 minutes in.
I am vaccinated because I believed what we were told. There is now too much evidence to suggest that we were lied to, my blind trust has now gone. I don't know if it was a different situation in the UK?

volver Sun 16-Oct-22 11:42:24

www.reuters.com/article/factcheck-pfizer-vaccine-transmission-idUSL1N31F20E

Not YouTube. You know what I think of YouTube as a source of medical information.

We weren't lied to. Anybody who thinks that has problems discerning actual scientific outcomes from scaremongering. The reason that they didn't test for the effect on transmissibility is because that is not what the trials require. They didn't test to see if it tasted like melons either. Because that's not what the trials require.

The vaccines do reduce transmission because for a period after you've had it, you are less likely to catch COVID. It doesn't remove susceptibility to Covid completely. If you cast your mind back 2 years you might remember that we were in deep s**t. We needed something to reduce the spread of COVID and the vaccine did it.

It's not clever to parrot the idea that Pfizer lied to us. It is clever to understand that the appropriate response when you are in the worst part of a pandemic might not be the appropriate response 2 years later. That doesn't mean it was wrong at the time. This seems quite difficult for people to understand.

Lilikemaho Sun 16-Oct-22 11:59:42

Volver YouTube isn't researching why so rude i have had all the covid vaccines by the way i think we most definitely need to research and i did say this YouTube video is very interesting

Ailidh Sun 16-Oct-22 12:05:51

volver

WATCHING YOUTUBE IS NOT RESEARCH!!!

Has your head on wall meme been retired? It seems entirely apposite.....

nanna8 Sun 16-Oct-22 12:13:58

My daughter, who has had 4 vaccinations, has just got her first dose of Covid . She has no idea where she got it and she is pretty sick. They have stopped ordering us around and no one is wearing masks anymore but they also neglect to warn us or inform us about anything connected with Covid. One extreme to the other. It is a pity it all became politicised in my country.

Smileless2012 Sun 16-Oct-22 12:33:06

We had our boosters yesterday. We had Covid in the summer and although it didn't feel anything more than a cold, we were both extremely lethargic for 2/3 weeks after we tested negative.

I feel safer and more confident going out knowing that I'm vaccinated.

I hope your D feels better soon nanna.

MayBee70 Sun 16-Oct-22 13:01:49

I, as you all know, watch a lot of utube stuff. Tim Spector is on utube talking about the results from his ZOE App. The government used that until recently and his data is always slightly ahead of the ONS. I also listen to lectures from California University that I find very interesting. I’ve always tried to live a health lifestyle and I don’t see a problem with turning to utube for advice. They’re currently coming down very heavily on anyone advising people to not have the vaccine.

volver Sun 16-Oct-22 13:14:55

Tim Spector is a proper scientist giving summaries of his work and research. John Campbell (for instance wink ) is an educator with no background in medical research who likes to be thought of as important.

I don't know how you tell the difference. But there is a difference and there is nothing preventing anyone saying anything they like on YouTube.