Regretting complaining about partner to family.

No I don’t if we have a tiff it stays between us, everyone has disagreements life would be very mundane if we never disagreed on certain matters. Ive never felt the need to share with family

Skydancer

I think we all do it. I have said all sorts of things to others when I’ve needed to rant only to regret it afterwards.
Just don’t put anything in writing though. I once sent an email to a friend grumbling about a relative of mine. The friend and the relative both share the same first name and afterwards I was terrified I’d sent the email to the wrong one. Fortunately I hadn’t. It taught me a lesson.

That must have been a heart stopping moment.

pascal30, I have, several times! I do wonder if they didn’t like him much in the first place.

I think we all do it. I have said all sorts of things to others when I’ve needed to rant only to regret it afterwards.
Just don’t put anything in writing though. I once sent an email to a friend grumbling about a relative of mine. The friend and the relative both share the same first name and afterwards I was terrified I’d sent the email to the wrong one. Fortunately I hadn’t. It taught me a lesson.

Maybe you should say exactly what you have said in this post to your family member..

I don’t have a partner, but I have sometimes complained about one d.I.l. to the other. Big mistake ! They are best friends - but I am an outspoken type of person and can’t help it. We still talk, we still see each other.