escaped
This is getting tricky.
Mt61 that was a horrible experience for you. 💐
However, I'm not sure it would be possible to make requests covering every aspect of the person touching our breasts. The male/female bit I totally get, but not the provenance of the practitioner, the colour of their skin, their accent, whether they wear certain dress, or even their shoe size.
I've just checked the breast doctors at our one stop clinic. Both doctors have unpronounceable names, their photos show they are from Asia, infact their blurb says they are from Bangladesh, and they speak Bengali. None of that has any relevance to me, but one is clearly a male, the other clearly female. I make my choice on that last alone.
Yes, me too. Since those bad experiences, I have been lucky to see female GPs/nurse for intimate examinations. My SA male GPs for any other complaints. If I was racist I wouldn’t want a SA nurse/Gp full stop, would I?
My knee specialist is SA but as long as I have my privacy knickers on I don’t mind.
I can’t help being shy, even at 60.