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Vibrators for the over 70s

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Retired65 Wed 07-May-25 20:00:18

The one I had doesn't appear to be working. Can anyone suggest a virbrator that works and doesn't tire the hands? It would be for my own use as my husband hasn't been interested in sex for many years. I am 74.

Nibbles44 Sat 10-May-25 15:31:22

Sit on the washing machine when it is in spin mode.

Momac55 Sat 10-May-25 15:22:59

I think you are all mean, how do you think this lady feels now, she was asking for advice and you have made fun of her

Francophile Sat 10-May-25 15:02:42

Le Wand is brilliant! 😊

www.theguardian.com/thefilter/2025/feb/23/best-vibrators-bullet-rabbit-wand

Daddima Sat 10-May-25 15:01:48

Cambsnan

Have a look at Love Honey. Discreet postal service. Enjoy

A discreet service is essential, isn’t it?

Angela59 Sat 10-May-25 15:00:00

Thought two marriages and few relationships I’ve used vibrators & other toys.
Kept me as sane x

Kathmaggie Sat 10-May-25 14:48:58

It’s absolutely normal to have sexual needs, vibrators are great for satisfying such needs. It’s healthy!

Cardashian123 Sat 10-May-25 14:48:34

Good on you OP to mention the unmentionables! I’m gutted because they say the clit shrinks with age and as I’m 73 and on my own I don’t know whether to try again…..

Whitewavemark2 Sat 10-May-25 14:39:33

win

Whitewavemark2

Bit rude

What is?

Said with tongue in cheek

Gizzy48 Sat 10-May-25 14:24:46

Sorry, I temporarily stopped reading at “OP has passed on”
🤣

Earthmother9 Sat 10-May-25 14:18:51

You can get rechargable ones of Ebay now.

Earthmother9 Sat 10-May-25 14:17:26

No I don''t think so, I'm 80 and I still havefun with one.

win Sat 10-May-25 14:05:15

Whitewavemark2

Bit rude

What is?

Silverlady333 Sat 10-May-25 14:01:38

Can't believe the prudes on here! No doubt you are all clutching your pearls at this post. Just because women reach a certain age doesn't mean they have to give up on sexual pleasures! Retired65 'Love Honey' is good site to look at. It is a bit of an eye opener as it caters for male and female needs and for those with fetishes too. Oh and for all you pearl clutcher's I have even seen vibrators for sale in my local supermarket. Be careful you don't swoon if you spot them!

JaneJudge Sat 10-May-25 14:00:06

you can buy them in superdrug now

win Sat 10-May-25 13:58:41

Shinamae

Give me a cup of tea and an episode of Emmerdale and I’m well pleased….🤗😜🙂‍↔️

You are missing out for sure x

win Sat 10-May-25 13:56:52

LucyAnna5

Kandinsky

I know some older people still have sexual needs - but this thread has made me feel slightly sick 🤢

And yet there are threads about constipation, UTIs, etc……

Don’t read it the n the problem is yours

Lemonred Sat 10-May-25 13:55:28

That was the premise of “Frankie & Grace”, season 3 with Jayne Fonda & Lilly Tomlin. They made a vibrator for older ladies called Vybrant. Ghastly looking thing though 😂😂😂

win Sat 10-May-25 13:53:36

Astitchintime

kircubbin2000

Is this a wind up?confused

Ooh…..there’s a good idea! A wind-up vibrator……less risk of the batteries running out ‘mid session’ 😉

🤣🤣🤣👍

orly Sat 10-May-25 13:47:09

kircubbin2000

Is this a wind up?confused

...no, it's battery operated

Bobbysgirl19 Fri 09-May-25 21:48:26

Oh Whiff! Thank you for the laughs !

Shinamae Fri 09-May-25 21:41:29

Give me a cup of tea and an episode of Emmerdale and I’m well pleased….🤗😜🙂‍↔️

Retired65 Fri 09-May-25 20:33:53

Thank you for the link lemsip. I was unable to access the Chaturbate site, just as well by the sound of it.

lemsip Fri 09-May-25 20:17:14

Boots pharmacy.
www.boots.com/sitesearch?searchTerm=vibrators

JamesandJon33 Fri 09-May-25 19:52:16

My computer tells me Chaturbate is a scam site. Take care.

Whiff Fri 09-May-25 19:48:25

keepingquiet there is a supposedly pig in blanket crochet decoration ,but it looks like a foreskin in a scarf.🤣

LucyAnna there is a farting thread as well..🤣