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Anniechip Tue 11-Oct-16 21:01:57

Hi everyone, need some advice on "getting rid" of my parents hand me downs!! I have a collection of assorted plates and glass bowls which belonged to my mother, if she was here now she would be 94 bless her.
We have just re-decorated our living room, and have nowhere to store these items. I want to de clutter and also I dont want our children to have to trawl through boxes of stuff which neither of them have probably ever seen and will definitely never want in their own homes, when DH and I are no longer around!
My problem is DH says we should keep them because they have sentimental value- I get his point that they are part of my family history but we don't have the space!!! My mum would say without any hesitation at all "Get rid, if you can sell them do it, or give them to charity!"
Some of the plates are probably 70 or 80 years old but as to their market value I would not know what it would be.
Whenever I have charity bags to go DH always always rummages through them and moans that I am getting rid of perfectly good stuff. He is a great hoarder, keeping hold of things" just in case"
Should I take them while he is not around or hang on to them? What to do, what to do!!!

Tegan Tue 11-Oct-16 21:24:17

Could you take them to an auction house? They would give you an idea of whether they were worth anything. The S.O. did that with his mothers collection of ornaments etc. Most of it wasn't worth much but there were a couple of surprises.

Christinefrance Tue 11-Oct-16 21:29:47

Yes try the auction house, I had a surprise when I took some things there. You could just keep one or two of the family heirlooms for remembrance.

petra Wed 12-Oct-16 08:19:29

Look for names ( if any) on the back of the plates. Check those out. If there's no value there, do you have any ugly garden fences? I have several plates hung on the 'ugly' fences. I have some on one of the sheds as well.

glammanana Wed 12-Oct-16 08:26:56

You may be pleasently surprised if you take them to auction,I have people asking me for these kind of plates at the charity shop where I work they are popular in farmhouse type kitchens and even if they are not worth much they look the part,some may fetch £3/4 in charity shops which goes well to raise money the said charity.