I am another who hates smelly washing. The perfumes make me feel slightly sick. I use Ariel (in much smaller doses than recommended) and wash as much on a 30 degree wash as possible. Then it all goes on the line! I cannot bear the smell of fabric conditioners.
I prefer thin, slightly rough towels to dry myself on, and so does the man but when we have people staying I feel obliged to get out the heavy duty towels and make them soft and fluffy. Recently, when staying with friends we both noticed we'd been given towels as heavy as rugs, and so thick and soft they didn't dry us properly. Not only that, they smelt of a sickly fabric conditioner too. The man unkindly remarked "charity shop odour" .
Funny how we all prefer different things. 