Spiders give me the creeps too but I don't like to kill them. I know a woman who Hoovers them up but I feel that's cruel. I swear by the spider catcher you get in Lakeland costing about £12.. It's a long tube with a battery operated suction thingy at the end. It gathers them up gently and you put the cap on at the end of the tube take it outside and release the offender into the garden. I use it for bees and wasps too but flies are too quick....or too fly maybe!!
Giving my pots a bit of a boost after the winter
Support and friendship for those whose lives have been affected by estrangement.

(was that the female I wonder?)