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Msoz Wed 26-Sept-18 10:47:15

Im in a kerfuffle about my cleaning lady.. shes young and actuve, she was quite good, but has gone off the boil recently, skimping on stuff and leaving 20/25% early. I have asked how she is, but shes not given any indication shes struggling. Part of me wants to go round and show her all the bits shes missed,and remind how I want things to look when completed, and get her to do the job properly to my standard, which we agreed and discussed when she started, she has clear areas that need to be done to A high standard, and a list of rotating items that need doing every 2/3 weeks. I think I'm clear on what needs to be done. The issue is... should I just let her go... its not imperative I have someone.. or should I go round and train her... Im reluctant to have a confrontation, but I feel that not giving her an opportunity to improve is unfair... Asking for advice, thanks

BRedhead59 Thu 27-Sept-18 17:25:45

When I was working full time and had a cleaner I often thought "it will do but only just" I always thought when I retired it would all look lovely because I'd be doing it.
Dream On - I don't have time!

Bijou Thu 27-Sept-18 17:33:03

I had a lovely cleaner for five years and she became a good friend and companion but her mother died and she had to care full time for her father. I advertised through Next Door Neighbour. Had several replies and chose woman from the next street. She is not great at cleaning but has made up for that by taking me to hospital appointments. Five days a week for five weeks having to leave 6.30 am thirty mile drive whilst I was having radiotheraphy. Sat up all night whilst I was waiting for seven hours for ambulance to take me to hospital. She also has an on line craft business and often has to look after her grandchildren. So I have learned not to worry about a bit of dust!

Happilyretired123 Thu 27-Sept-18 17:43:46

In my experience cleaners start off good then “go off the boil”. I found it easier to go through a cleaning company where it’s less embarassing to ask them to send someone else if you aren’t happy!

NanaPlenty Thu 27-Sept-18 18:33:59

I've employed a cleaner and now I'm on the other side of the fence and housekeep for someone two days a week. It's hard to find a good trustworthy cleaner. I get on really well with the lady I work for and if I'm not doing something I expect her to tell me - I might not like it but if someone is paying you you should expect to work to the expected standard and hours and also to be told when something is not right. Stand firm and speak to her - if she values her job she should be willing to listen to any criticism and pull her socks up if needed x

Barmeyoldbat Thu 27-Sept-18 18:35:44

I would sit down with her and ask her if she has any problems that are worrying her and mention the leaving early and the drop in her standard of work. It might well be just a short term thing but I do think you need to have that chat.

Thebeeb Thu 27-Sept-18 19:21:09

I have had a cleaner £10 per hour for several years now. Absolutely no problems. Yes she sometimes arrives late/ leaves early but sometimes does extra other times. She has regular things to do but fits in anything she thinks needs doing and it all works out well over the month. No instructions necessary.

Yellowmellow Fri 28-Sept-18 00:08:51

I think you need to make it clear to her that she is paid for X amount of hours, and you expect certain things done. When at work we all have to conform and she is no different. I think she has become comfortable and complacent ( mostly, I would imagine, because you haven't said anything when little things have got left). If she doesn't take notice get a new cleaner. Recommends are always a good idea.

wellingtonpie Fri 28-Sept-18 05:42:34

Lucky girl. I was earning £10an hour over 10 years ago. Maybe a bit more eh? Especially as she uses her own cleaning materials.

Indigoblue Sat 29-Sept-18 18:12:28

My cleaning lady is me - and I'm not that good at it. I'm going to have to fire me.

MissAdventure Sat 29-Sept-18 19:14:19

grin

PECS Sat 29-Sept-18 23:08:16

My cleaner is not one to mince words..if she wanted a rise she would ask! It suits her as I am very flexible and when she is zipping off to Majorca (again!) I never mind and she swaps days with me when other clients need her for special cleans or are away etc! She cleans for my DD too.

PECS Sat 29-Sept-18 23:12:19

Luckygirl Not parquet floors, floor boards! Use a Vileda spray mop thingy where you put the cleaning liquid in the handle then squirt and mop!