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Packing to move. Downsizing. Yes right!

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paddyann Fri 01-Mar-19 08:57:43

We've bought but not sold yet.I'll wait until we have an offer before packing.We've got to this stage twice before ,in fact sold our house twice before and then the house we bought fell through.Its tough to start unpacking again so I'll wait.
The house we've bought has been taken off the market as the seller has already moved and in no hurry to complete ,ours has only been live on Rightmove /Zoopla etc for a few days ,2 viewers so far .We live in hope .We've already got the plans for an extension in place for the new house and we're keen to get started .

M0nica Fri 01-Mar-19 08:55:00

We have yet to downsize, but when we have moved house in the past, I have found it easier to declutter when unpacking than packing. Packing often happens quite quickly while unpacking can be as leisurely as you like.

Urmstongran Fri 01-Mar-19 08:48:41

We downsized 9 years ago craftyone when I was 56y. I’m so glad we did and did it then as it’s hard work! Like you I didn’t sell anything but gave all that wouldn’t fit to good homes - a quart won’t fit into a pint pot!

We sold our house within a week (!) so it was action stations. We too moved ourselves. Husband hired a large van. A friend helped. I left the 3 piece suite, washer, dishwasher, dryer and bed - we bought new - so I dare say that made removal day easier. We were lucky because the sun was shining but I did sit in my lovely garden for a few minutes on my own before we left to say ‘goodbye’. I felt a bit emotional as we’d been there 32 years and I loved my house and my neighbours. Brought our girls up there, had dogs to walk on the local meadows. Hey ho.
But we definitely did the right thing for us. We love our tiny apartment as it’s right in the town centre. It’s given us a new lease of life - hardly any housework = time to play out.
The last few days before we left we were just using 2 cups, 2 plates etc you get my drift. All boxes packed by us (not too heavy) and labelled for ‘the other end’. We borrowed one of those things where you can slide the metal shelf under a box and tip it back onto wheels - saved lugging boxes and was brilliant. Perhaps you could get one from a hire shop?
Good luck I hope all goes well for you and you’re happy in your new home. You take your memories with you I found ❤️

Chewbacca Fri 01-Mar-19 08:45:55

I've just sold my house and I'm in the process of buying another. The only thing I've done so far is to clear out all of the crafting stock that I didn't use and give it to a local resource centre, but there is still a huge amount left.

I've also dug up some snowdrops, whilst they were "in the green" so that I can take them to my next garden. I know I should be starting to declutter but it just seems so overwhelming and, to be honest, it still doesn't feel as though it's really happening. I keep thinking I've got plenty of time but I really do need to make a start. Good luck with your move craftyone.

craftyone Fri 01-Mar-19 08:34:28

I have given away about 1/3 of a house, to the hospice shop, family, neighbours and to ever grateful workers at the tip. It has taken me several years, starting when husband died. I was one of the ones who needed to get on and do it in a hurry, the initial clearing

The pace slowed but load after load went to the hospice shop and I saw the gift aid receipts with a smile on my face, did something good with it all. Reserved a new build, 7 months ago so the pace increased. My house did not sell for 6 months, so I slowed down because my mind did not accept that I would actually move. Christmas holiday was lonely so I added more crafting stash and more since.

It hit me last night, when I finished yet another crafted item. I am moving, really am moving. All that downsizing helped but my crafting things spread and I added a lot to my food stores, I blame march 29th for that, media hype and potential winter snowing in, isolated village here

I re-started this morning, packed 2 boxes. I still feel in limbo but this is going to happen. Oh yes, the reason for the thread, I am not getting packers in, would need to sort at that end, might as well sort now but I can still see that I will have to let things go when I am there. No box is too heavy for me btw and it is kind of therapeutic

How did you tackle packing if you did it on your own? Are you in process of packing or downsizing for a future move?