firstly I deferred retiring and taking my pensions for 5 years.
This means I get more per month than the basic, which leaves me comfortable at least.
Also when I divorced I went to mediation. When my ex said no way could I have any call on his pension (which was very high compared to anything I could hope for), the mediators gave me the largest part of the house. So I downsized and paid off both the ex and the mortgage.
Garden Shade Dilemma - Ideas Please



