I do not have anything new to report. This is such a 'Waiting Game'. I do realise that it is only just over two months since I accepted the offer on this house, but it feels much, much longer!!! A lot has happened to me since then!!!
I have (bravely) decided to arrange a second viewing on the flat, hopefully to do final measurements etc as to where furniture is going to go. I have also written to my Solicitor giving them MY selected Completion Date.
Last time I did this, everything collapsed a few days later which is why I am saying 'bravely'.
Now I am recovering from my operation I am starting to get more concerns about this whole removal business. Suppose for the past four or five weeks other things have been on my mind - also the thought that if it proved 'invasive' I would have to drop the whole idea of moving.
Fortunately, it was an excellent prognosis, so now I am catching up on all those 'put-off' worries.
These days there is such a short period between exchange and Completion, and having read on here of the nightmare people have had with regards to getting removal companies, even when thinking they had sorted it all out well in advance.
This is now worrying me considerably, as do need a good reliable company who will do all my packing. Have talked to my chosen one, and they have pencilled in MY chosen dates, but until I know something definitely cannot actually book them.
One of my daughters - who moved last year from Belfast to the South Coast here suggested to me that I should make a provisional booking with other companies, giving me more chance of, at least, one of them being able to meet the finallised date. Seems to me rather unethical, but that is what such short time spans drives us to doing.
I have never asked any of my children for help at any time. However, I have now asked my son, who lives 'up north', if he could take a few days of work when I am in the final stages of moving to come down to assist me.
I am told that the stress we have at this stage of 'waiting, and waiting' is nothing like the stress which is there when contracts do get exchanged and everything has to happen within a few days. That is when i will need someone with me.
Still half expecting it all to fall through. When people ask me about moving - I usually say 'I have no idea if I am or if I am not'.
Another Tired Kicking For The Sick And Disabled By Rishi
Should Gransnet delay the first posts from new posters?