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Help calm me. House buying and selling stress

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craftyone Tue 22-Sept-20 19:33:18

Links to the first six threads

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thread number 7

craftyone Sat 17-Oct-20 14:44:21

Hi Shandy, be very careful not to be drawn into a bidding war, that seller should have bitten your hand off. Cash buyer, full asking price. Stand your ground with this, EA may try to play one buyer off against another. Be prepared

Ellianne Sat 17-Oct-20 14:50:31

Ooo Shandy I'm so pleased you have found somewhere you like and by rights it should be yours with that offer. Don't let them faff about beyond Monday morning.
February sounds a good time scale for many reasons. Fingers crossed!

Ellianne Sat 17-Oct-20 15:01:19

Yes, GrandmaMoira, I'm surprised too there are no restrictions here seeing as Exeter is so bad. I think the problem is that Devon is a huge county, much of it rural, so placing restrictions on it all just because 80% of the cases are at the university would be unfair.
Not many farmers or fishermen tend to go clubbing late at night anyway!

Franbern Sat 17-Oct-20 15:12:46

Fingers crossed for you Shandy. Might be good for the vendor to go ahead with those other viewings, and realise that your offer is the very best she can get. Surely, a February completion date is a good one.

If you were one of the first people who viewed and offered full asking price, she may think she can get more from other people, Hopefully (for your sake), she will be disillusioned.

GrandmaMoira Sat 17-Oct-20 15:19:05

Shandy, I'm glad you've seen somewhere you like and hope your offer is accepted. Any sensible vendor will accept a cash buyer like you.

Franbern Sat 17-Oct-20 15:21:53

Thought I should get some fresh air inside of me. So, trundled down to Promenade and along there for about an hour. Pleasantly surprised at how many people were about, and how many were eating ice creams, now I love ice cream, but did not to be eating it when there is a cold wind blowing. I was wrapped up warm, scarf, gloves and winter jacket - not ice cream weather.

Tide was well out, So many dogs having a absolutely wonderful time racing around that large area, collecting sticks, barking and just really getting loads of exercise. It really is just about the best place for these animals. Can understand why so many dog lovers like to live close to the seaside.

As I passed the pier I remembered I had applied for my free residents pass to it, but had not heard from them to collect. Made a memo to myself to send them an email when I got home. Of course, their email to me arrived whilst I was out, so if it is still dry tomorrow, will go and collect that, taking appropriate ID.

midgey Sat 17-Oct-20 16:44:51

Oh Shandy fingers crossed for you!???

Whiff Sat 17-Oct-20 17:07:28

Shandy do not offer more. Stick to the full asking price. If you enter a bidding war you will look weak . Tell them that is you full and final offer. You don't know what the survey will show. There could be something that will be costly need doing like rewiring, windows etc. If they except you price you could be in by Christmas. Have they got a property to go too ?

Shandy57 Sat 17-Oct-20 17:47:58

Just lost everything I wrote by touching something! Thanks for all your kind comments, I'll be back on Monday to let you know what has happened smile

Ellianne Sat 17-Oct-20 18:14:11

So below is the Amtico flooring I have chosen for the dining room. I wanted it to blend with the pinky colour in my marble table and on a canvas a special friend painted for me.

Ellianne Sat 17-Oct-20 18:14:52

Here

Shandy57 Sat 17-Oct-20 18:30:30

How lovely Ellianne -I wouldn't have wanted to carry your marble table in the move! smile

Ellianne Sat 17-Oct-20 18:32:38

Takes 3 men to lift it Shandy! grin
It is Portuguese marble.

Whiff Sat 17-Oct-20 19:01:41

Ellianne I like the first one best.

Spice101 Sun 18-Oct-20 05:33:57

Hello to everyone,

At long last we are seeing the easing of some of our COVID restrictions. Not fully released from lockdown yet but vastly improved situation from tomorrow. Our 5 kilometre travel allowance will change to 25 kms and there is the politicians promise that as of November 1st many more restrictions will be removed, we will then be able to leave home for any reason and retail will open up fully. We have had only 1 or 2 new cases for each of the last 5 days so obviously vastly improved situation from the 723 daily cases in mid June.

I've already had a text from my hairdresser to see if I want to have my hair cut on Tuesday as she can start work again tomorrow. It was last done 3 months ago so I should have had 2 cuts in that time.

Encouraging news from you Shandy, fingers crossed for a wonderful outcome for you.

Ellianne and Franbern good luck with your floor hunting. There are so many choices these days that choosing anything is hard.

I have an old oak fold up chair which needs recovering that was my Mum's. Now that restrictions are eased I can start looking for some upholsterers and decide on material for that.

I also have my fingers and everything else crossed for us. We are doing a viewing tomorrow for a place that sounds promising. Unfortunately there are no photos of it to look at yet so will be going in blind. I had a message from an Estate Agent to say there was a property coming onto the market soon that he thought we would be interested in. Another message from him last night saying it had just been listed and did we want to view it. Funnily enough it is next door to a place we looked at last year and seriously considered. The house is bigger than we need but location, land size and a few other features are perfect on paper! I know compromise is most likely necessary so maybe the compromise with this one will be the bigger house.

Take care all and stay safe.

Franbern Sun 18-Oct-20 09:20:08

Spice, just seen a reporter from Melbourne informing about the lifting of many of the restrictions in the coming couple of weeks. Sounds good, and, of course, it is as you all go into your summer month. I assume that there is hope that by your next winter, there may be progress on a vaccine.

Also sounds promising on your house view. Do hope this goes well for you. There is always the need to have some compromises to that perfect home in our heads. However, once moved in it can quickly pan out to be perfect. I did make compromises re. my flat - but now cannot imagine anything much more perfect than what I have got.

We will all be crossing fingers and toes for Shandy - would be so lovely to see her settled in to her new home.

I notice on other threads there are people still getting into this whole (horrible) process of home selling and purchase. If Spice and Shandy do get sorted out, it will mean that the original participants in this thread have reached happy conclusions. Be good if both of these can be this year, be nice for this crazy year to have some positives.

craftyone Sun 18-Oct-20 09:49:50

winter might be severe, we are due for another severe winter so I am prepping for that very soon

I know where the stop cock is, I could turn the water off if needed

I have started to empty my 2 big water butts and have disconnected my downpipe outflow,so that rain goes straight down the downpipe. I have put a bung on the open connector and used a pipe clip to secure it

Both water butts have brass taps a watering can height from the base, that amount of water is enough to secure the waterbutts in high winds. I shall empty down to that level if we are forecast frost. I have long tubing and the spare water will be directed into a rainwater channel which goes to a soakaway. I shall then put insulation covers on the 2 brass taps

I shall turn the inside key on the piping that takes water to my outside tap, to switch the water flow off. I will then open the tap to drain and will leave it open, then put an insulating cover on it

midgey Sun 18-Oct-20 10:06:42

Did you know that you can have a very convenient switch to turn your water off? My stock cock is situated behind my gas cooker...! The housing association has fitted a switch under my sink that is simple to use. It is called Surestop.

Whiff Sun 18-Oct-20 11:05:38

Spice all the best with this house. Really hope it's the one. Glad your restrictions are being lifted. It was bliss months ago when I had my hair cut. I hadn't had it cut for over a year. Enjoy being pampered.

I put the cover on my outdoor tap as I found it when I was clearing out the garage. Garden is winter ready. When I had the new kitchen fitted last year my fitter changed the stop cock under the sink from a knob to a lever as it's easier for me to use. Also have separate lever for dishwasher and washing machine. Stop tap for shower is in the loft. But have combi boiler so no water in the tank in the loft. Also all new insulation in the loft. So I am winter ready.

Another quiet day. Skip coming tomorrow so will be getting plenty of exercise filling it. Looking forward to it. And garage can finally be as I want it.

Have a good day everyone.

craftyone Mon 19-Oct-20 06:59:48

I have been reading about the ramping house prices and the very long wait from agreed price to completion, average is 6 months. I can see shenanigans ahead, sellers thinking they have asked too little. Yet more stress for anyone thinking of moving

Ellianne Mon 19-Oct-20 07:55:59

Fingers crossed for both Shandy and Spice today.

Whiff Mon 19-Oct-20 07:58:10

Cheese biscuits made setting up in the fridge to be cooked later. Skip arrived at 7.30. j
Just had my porridge and after my cuppa outdoor clothes on and filling it up. My son in law will be round later to put their bit in and move anything I can't. But should be ok. Can put things in my trolley and drag it to it. It will be lovely to get the garage as I want it. Another thing ticked off the list.

Have a good day everyone.

Ellianne Mon 19-Oct-20 09:05:33

I'm guessing crafty next there will be articles on a housing crash and how prices will plummet. I'm sure there will be some levelling off, but not huge drops in prices. More interesting for me will be how things look nationwide and whether London will remain at the fore and whether it will continue to set the market barometer.

Ellianne Mon 19-Oct-20 09:07:06

Good luck with your garage clearing Whiff, hope it is fun and successful.

Spice101 Mon 19-Oct-20 09:56:51

Don't want to jinx things but I think we may have found our new home!

Fingers crossed with what happens from here. The house is lovely, only about 12 years old and way more than we need but it ticks just about all the boxes for what we want. We have asked the agent to send us the paperwork when available and after looking through that will have a second viewing. We only had about 20 minutes today and nowhere enough time to see everything inside and out.
If we like it as much after the next step we will be putting in an offer.

Hopefully all will go our way from here on.