High gloss kitchen am I mad?

My DH and I are building our retirement home, we are hoping to make a modern open plan living space and have found some completely gorgeous coffee grey super high gloss units we’ve fallen in love with for the kitchen. I’ve had a light coloured painted kitchen for years and haven’t found it that easy to care for, I know I could go for a wood effect and that would be super forgiving. I want to be having family over frequently, having everyone together our boys and families including a dog. I’ve been so very sensible for all my life and there’s a part of me that just wants to have my dream home for once before I snuff it but am I completely mad to have a high gloss kitchen?