I agree with M0nica, and I sympathise Tezhar . I have health problems and simply cannot run around after my lovely DGCs- it’s physically impossible.
There’s practical reasons too- no way can I now walk the mile each way to do the school runs twice a day and spend an hour playing football in the park after school (as I did pre-HF). Besides that, it wouldn’t be fair on them either.
I still dote on them when I see them, that won’t change, it’s that the practical stuff has changed.
When I developed heart failure out of the blue I had that conversation with my DS and DDIL, they completely understood.
I think so long as everyone understands the parameters of what you are prepared to do or not, then that’s not a problem.
Good luck op, you sound completely worn down. You need to take care of yourself ??
The majority of Israeli Jews do not want to occupy Gaza.
Well Labour’s “patriotism” didn’t last very long, did it? 🇬🇧