MissAdventure
I think opinions are roughly 50/50 with regards to whether one "should" or not.
Obviously it's an individual thing, so no right of wrong answers.
Yes, totally. And sometimes someone might want to help but can't for any number of reasons, while others, like us, have no choice but to roll up our sleeves and get on with it. We all do what we feel is right at the end of the day.