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Need to share my achievement

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ceejayjay Tue 12-Mar-24 06:51:37

Good Morning Everyone

Just wanted to share something with someone.

After a long divorce I purchased my own property in October & have been busily updating/renovating it whilst working full time ever since. I’m so happy to say I’m having the last couple of carpets fitted today & can now take my foot off the gas lol. At 52 I’ve discovered DIY skills I never thought I had & I cannot believe how proud of myself I am (hence the share). With mental health issues I do find it hard to give myself any credit, but I am really going to try to soak this all up & digest just what I’ve achieved. Sorry if this post is a little different but I feel like shouting from the rooftops lol x

albertina Thu 14-Mar-24 13:26:47

I take my hat off to you ! Quite an achievement indeed.

Wishing you many happy years in your own property.

Leaves1 Thu 14-Mar-24 13:29:49

Great achievement 👏 So glad you are feeling proud.

Norah Thu 14-Mar-24 13:34:02

Well done you! Congratulations!

icanhandthemback Thu 14-Mar-24 14:42:44

Well done! It is fantastic you are recognising your worth. Enjoy living with your achievement.

Gossamerbeynon1945 Thu 14-Mar-24 14:47:24

Well done. May you spend many happy times in your new home!

sharon103 Thu 14-Mar-24 15:04:34

Congratulations on all you've achieved. smile

LovesBach Thu 14-Mar-24 15:18:41

Well done, I hope you will be happy and content in your new home. x

Dogmum2 Thu 14-Mar-24 15:24:47

Thank you for sharing this, lovely to hear good news. May you have much happiness in your new home x

Daffydilly Thu 14-Mar-24 16:34:57

I just love hearing about things like this.

You must be feeling bloody awesome. X

nadateturbe Thu 14-Mar-24 16:48:25

Well done, you've every right to feel very proud of yourself!

crazyH Thu 14-Mar-24 17:11:01

ceejayjay - well done. You should be very proud of yourself. I was roughly your age when I divorced, but spent my time wallowing in self-pity. Divorce settlement took a couple of years of legal wrangling, as you know. But I didn’t have the skill or knowledge to do any d.i.y. - so had builders in to do the hard work. My s.i.law was in the building business, so he got the right people in etc etc. Well settled now in my very own home.
All the best for a wonderful life ahead flowers

Gundy Thu 14-Mar-24 17:22:37

A woman reaches her PRIME in her 50’s!! Everything comes together - you’ve found yourself, gained wisdom, you’ve worked hard, you will achieve more and start to enjoy your independence - and no one can take it away from you.

Congratulations! So happy for you. Now you’ll be able to help others going through similar journeys.

It just gets better with each decade going forward. Live it up!
USA Gundy

Labradora Thu 14-Mar-24 17:31:40

Well done you ! you can't beat buying your own place. I bought my first flat nearly 40 years ago and I can still remember how great it felt to have somewhere I could really call my own.
You've got through a massive amount of work; divorce, house purchase; home improvements. That would be amazing under any circumstances but as you say you have mental health issues that is an extra gold star.
👏👏👏👏👏👏

ayokunmi1 Thu 14-Mar-24 18:09:51

Well done congratulations

tinad42 Thu 14-Mar-24 18:39:48

Such a great achievement! Well done. It always feels far more special, when you complete a task yourself. 🤩

Daisydaisydaisy Thu 14-Mar-24 18:45:47

Well done on Your achievement …hope it has helped you to come to terms with things .
At 50 split up with Husband and bought a flat outright …It was the first time I had lived alone and one of the best things ever did 😃

LJP1 Thu 14-Mar-24 19:53:52

Great to hear and I'm sure you have enjoyed the success of seeing the results of your ownwork and what you have learnt from it. Many of us are wishing we were as adventurous and brave. Revel in your achievements! wine

knspol Thu 14-Mar-24 20:15:45

So great to hear something so positive on this site, well done you, an inspiration to many of us.

Patsy70 Thu 14-Mar-24 20:37:29

So pleased for you Ceejayjay. What a great achievement, especially learning the diy skills, which sets you up for life. Enjoy the warmer months in your home. Onwards & upwards. 👏👏👏

win Thu 14-Mar-24 20:56:38

Congratulations ad well done, how I wish I could something like that. I have never tried proper DIY, did a bit of emulsion painting and hated it, actually found it so boring, butI have never had the time properly before and now Ido not have the ability as my back is too painful. Neither of my parent could do DIY but the rest of the family can do everything themselves. You are entitled to be very, very proud indeed, I certainly would be shouting from the roof top too. Well done

Vito Thu 14-Mar-24 21:06:39

Well done, enjoy every minute of your new life 👏

Seabreeze Thu 14-Mar-24 21:56:30

Well done you. Good luck in your new home.

4allweknow Thu 14-Mar-24 22:00:38

You should be shouting and dancing from the rooftops. Just think back on how you felt before you bought the house and started the renovations, and how you feel when you look around at what you have achieved. No holding you back now.

Sasta Thu 14-Mar-24 22:54:02

Lovely happy news. Your excitement shines through. Enjoy every minute, you have earned it! 💐

Madmeg Thu 14-Mar-24 23:45:10

Not quite the same, and I am much older than you, but about 20 years ago my job required me to buy a small flat to avoid a very long commute to work and it needed quite a refurb. I knew it would only be for a few years so I didn't want to spend a fortune on it. My daughters bought me DIY tools for Christmas and I learnt new skills. I saved a fortune on building furniture from kits, tiling a bathroom, even doing all the manual work for a full re-wire after learning a great deal about electrical circuits. I was really proud of myself - and still am!!

Enjoy your new home for many years, and feel proud of yourself.