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Estate agents and any dress code

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M0nica Wed 22-May-24 07:17:15

We are selling our house and moving, so currently see quite a lot of estate agents and I have noticed an immense difference in the way mae and female Estate Agents dress.

All the male estate agents we see are really smartly dressed, suits, shirts and ties for the older ones, open necks for the younger, but polished and well presented.

This cannot be said about the female agents we deal with. I am not suggesting any specific style of dress, in any style of woman's wear you can look smart or scruffy, depending how you put it together, but many of them dress very casually and seem to make very little effort.

I write this because we went to view a house yesterday and the agent looked so scruffy, I found it very disconcerting.

She was a woman of, probably late 40s/early 50s, who affected what I suppose was meant to be a BoHo style. She was wearing a loose creased, shapeless dress with an equally shapeless wrap/jacket, whch looked as if she was wearing a nightdress and summer dressing gown and had just rolled out of bed, Heavy boots and an untidy pre-raphaelite hairdo (long hair and tight curling, no make up and a pale uninteresting face.

Her 'couldn't be bothered to get dressed this morning dress' was matched by her attitude, that by asking her to walk a couple of hundred yards from the estate agent's offices to view one of the houses the agency had for sale, was really more than she should be expected to do.

No, the house wasn't what we were looking for, but I cannot imagine any of the male estate agents we have dealt with turning up for a viewing dressed so carelessly.

Baggs Fri 31-May-24 09:10:31

How to derail a thread subject in one easy lesson 😂🤣

Oreo Fri 31-May-24 09:27:20

😁
We all view appearances and judge accordingly I guess, so the old ‘never judge a book by its cover’ is pretty apt.It soon becomes clear if the person can do the job well or not.
Having said that, a solicitor who wears a mini kilt black tights bovver boots and has tattooed mitts won’t inspire confidence in clients or associates, even if good at her job as it implies attitude.

Doodledog Fri 31-May-24 09:28:25

Baggs

How to derail a thread subject in one easy lesson 😂🤣

Who?

Baggs Fri 31-May-24 09:38:56

I tend to agree, oreo, but I always feel guilty when I judge by appearances in a situation like that solicitor one.

On the other hand, I've met many a respectable-looking professional whose respectability, on closer acquaintance, leaves a lot to be desired.

And on the other other hand, in evolutionary terms we are 'programmed' to judge by appearances because on balance it has increased our chances of survival.

I guess one just has to carry on winging it!

AreWeThereYet Fri 31-May-24 09:43:47

Having said that, a solicitor who wears a mini kilt black tights bovver boots and has tattooed mitts won’t inspire confidence in clients or associates, even if good at her job as it implies attitude.

Beg to differ. She has impressed us immensely. And we were referred by a friend who was also impressed. We've just given her name to a neighbour who has fence boundary issues - he already knows about the way she dresses because we told him ages ago but he's more interested in how she has dealt with us. She doesn't always seem to dress like that, I have seen her in a skirt and jacket by the way. She has her own partnership and seems to be doing well. As someone who spent most of her life in the required corporate suit I quite admire her for doing her own thing and I think a lot of her clients are much younger than I am so probably not so bothered by the lack of suit.

PaperMonster Mon 03-Jun-24 21:14:02

Tonight’s male estate agent wore dark chino-type trousers, polo shirt and a jumper. Did the job competently!

Grantanow Mon 10-Jun-24 09:04:55

It probably doesn't matter if the cat is black or white so long as it catches mice.