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Embarrassing Alexa

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Havemercy Sun 26-Jan-25 12:29:06

Just experienced an extremely embarrassing episode, courtesy of our WiFi smart speaker. Alexa kindly reminded me ( out loud ) that it was time to order some more female incontinence towels. Very kind of her - but problem was this was in front of three visitors !! Embarrassing silence followed but I thought it might be a good idea to warn anyone who orders things from Amazon that Alexa will speak!!

Sago Sun 26-Jan-25 15:31:47

They do listen, they have to as they need to recognise the “wake” word.
Our mobile phones also listen.
Unless you’re plotting a terrorist attack or a major heist AIBU do t think it’s worth worrying about.

Marydoll Sun 26-Jan-25 15:33:35

kittylester

My Alexa would only tell me that if I asked her about notifications - not randomly.

I love my Alexa. I use it for lots of different things and they can be a boon for people with memory problems.

Same here. We don't get random notifications, our Alexa flashes if there is a notification. We have to ask what it is. Often we don't!

Havemercy Sun 26-Jan-25 17:44:58

I should explain that Alexa was flashing and I asked her what the notification was - thinking it might be a weather warning - not an invitation to order some more incontinence pads! Anyway, my original post was meant to be a lighthearted warning. I will certainly be disabling the notifications for Amazon purchases.

Marydoll Sun 26-Jan-25 18:14:34

It was amusing

Barleyfields Sun 26-Jan-25 18:17:52

keepingquiet

Those things are always listening which is why I don't have one.

Me too. No way.

BlueSapphire Sun 26-Jan-25 18:25:33

I have three, kitchen, sitting room and bedroom and love them!

Listening to some Joan Baez now on the kitchen one while I'm cooking dinner (and drinking wine...)

Often use them to catch up on radio programmes I've missed; and have the bedroom one on Radio 4 quietly all night. It's company in the night, and doesn't stop me from sleeping.

Barleyfields Sun 26-Jan-25 18:27:46

I use a CD player and radios.

kittylester Sun 26-Jan-25 18:59:10

I like to try to keep up with things.

merlotgran Sun 26-Jan-25 19:18:00

kittylester

I like to try to keep up with things.

Me too. I do love my gadgets. 😂

Oreo Sun 26-Jan-25 19:37:12

Aveline

No Alexa for me

Not for me too

Mogsmaw Sun 26-Jan-25 19:39:06

Dh has Alexa in his home office, bedroom and one in the kitchen. I use the kitchen one as a radio but I’m not keen on them “listening”. I won’t have one in my bedroom/sewingroom.
When I was in my DH’s bed Alexa randomly came on, waking me up, she insisted on playing “ three hours of diurnal sound so I would sleep” then followed weird drumming.
I told her to “off”.
DH had switched off then on the router apparently.

Marydoll Sun 26-Jan-25 19:47:27

We have them throughout the house and use them to control lights, checking the weather, monitoring Amazon deliveries and also as intercoms.
I spend a lot of time unwell in bed, so I use them to summon my butler (DH), if need anything

AreWeThereYet Sun 26-Jan-25 19:52:19

There seems be be quite a bit of paranoia about

Not necessarily paranoia. More and more it just pays to be careful with digital information.

From all the apps on phones, Alexa, PCs, tablets, etc a lot of information is collected. Especially social media. Perfect for identity theft. There have been a few occasions here and in the US where identity theft has led to people's houses being sold without their knowledge.

A bit like collecting all the scraps of shredded paper from bins 20 years ago to get people's bank details.

Allira Sun 26-Jan-25 20:58:10

Alexa - do you have notifications?

"We will be delivering your DH's Christmas present of Pringle's Mens' Warm Socks tomorrow"
😁

Maggiemaybe Sun 26-Jan-25 21:23:13

We have two Alexas who are quite amenable, and their little sister Echo who seems to delight in pretending she never understands what I’m asking her for.

I doubt very much that there’s anyone/thing listening in to what DH and I have to say - they’d have died of boredom long since.

LovesBach Sun 26-Jan-25 21:25:36

If Alexa were listening in at this home, she would probably have a meltdown with boredom.

LovesBach Sun 26-Jan-25 21:27:14

'Sorry Maggiemaybe - I hadn't seen your post when I wrote the above; obviously two households where Alex would have alean time.

LovesBach Sun 26-Jan-25 21:27:48

'A lean time'.

Floradora9 Sun 26-Jan-25 21:37:24

keepingquiet

Those things are always listening which is why I don't have one.

They cannot listen if you disable the microphone . She reminds you if you have already ordered this item .

Redhead56 Sun 26-Jan-25 21:41:06

We have them in most rooms but the one in the kitchen I call Alex as its a male voice I actually quite like!

V3ra Sun 26-Jan-25 21:41:43

A friend was discussing her upcoming hysterectomy with a friend.
Alexa suddenly started telling them the names of all the hospitals in the area.
They were stunned and felt they had to continue their conversation in whispers 🤫

Maggiemaybe Sun 26-Jan-25 21:42:26

LovesBach

'Sorry Maggiemaybe - I hadn't seen your post when I wrote the above; obviously two households where Alex would have alean time.

Great minds think alike, LovesBach. smile

keepingquiet Sun 26-Jan-25 22:08:42

There is no person actively listening to your conversations- rather whenever the gadget is switched on it is in communication by satellite in order to respond the voice commands. How do people think these things work?
Yes, this also happens with your phone but these devices have different functions.
ie for Alexa to work on voice command it has to be switched on.
Phones do not have to be switched on all the time in the same way.
However, all these tech devices including laptops are constantly collecting data about each and every one of us pretty much most of the time.

MiniMoon Sun 26-Jan-25 22:56:31

We have four echo devices. We live in a dead area for digital radio signals and the two in kitchen and living room are used primarily for radio.
We sleep in separate rooms and each have an echo dot to use as an intercom in case we might need each other during the night. It's also nice to be able to ask for the time and not have to fumble about for my phone.

Franbern Mon 27-Jan-25 08:52:57

HettyBetty

I wouldn't have one in the house if you paid me a million pounds. Humans have managed without them forever.

As we did without electricity for light, central heating for warmth, machines to do washing, cooking, etc. etc. So, this is a rather silly statement to make about one specific machine.

Alexa is wonderful for someone, like me, living independently, in my own flat. Anywhere in the flat I know I can call out to Alexa to call an ambulance (if necessary), or my local daughter - so no worries by her about me having a fall and not being able to get help.

Yes, it 'listens' to me if I give it a clear instruction (eg: |Turn on front Living Room lights'), although often enough gets things wrong - it is not very 'smart'!!!!! Would get rather bored with listening to me most of the time, where there is silence.

I am no more paranoid about this little machine listening to me than I was about the covid vaccines injecting me with a chip. Just very appreciative that I live in a time when domestic machinery has reached such good levels to make my everyday living so easy and comfortable.