We started the process at the end of last year, but the Bodach’s doctor said he didn’t have capacity due to his Alzheimer’s, so the solicitor was going to apply for guardianship ( a long, expensive process I’d already been through for my wee auntie).
Sadly, the Bodach’s cancer took him at the turn of the year, so it’s just for me now.
I didn’t find it made any difference where the Bodach’s care was concerned, as the hospital staff were happy to abide by my wishes for palliative care only, and all our finances were joint anyway.