We have been told that the end is very near, so I am hoping for some advice.
I hope it doesn't seem tasteless to ask this before she has actually passed away, but this person's closest relative is very upset and worried about both what is happening now and what will come after. She is very old and in poor health herself, so won't be able to do anything.
She / we we don't even know who will arrange a funeral or what first steps they would have to take in order to do it, or how it would be financed.
Some background: the person (who I will refer to as Aunt from now on, though our actual relationship is not so close) has been hospitalised after a few years living their own home dependant on 4 daily visits by two carers for all her care needs. Aunt has been funding this herself. She is single with no children.
Apart from the carers, the only other person who has been able to help is a friend/neighbour (not young herself).
When Aunt became housebound/chairbound, this friend helped her out a lot, taking on the responsibility for her finances, paying bills for her etc. There were no POAs but this help was allowed anyway with Aunt's authorisation, though I am told this has started to become a problem in recent weeks (perhaps because Aunt could no longer sign, though im not sure).
Aunt's banking arrangements are very outdated too, which might complicate some things, but I won't go into that unless it becomes relevant further on.
Anyway, even before Aunt was hospitalised, the friend was understandably starting to find it all all the responsibility too much, and understandably does not want any involvement with what needs to be done going forward.
After Aunts closest relative, mentioned above, I am one of 4 relatives who are next in line, so to speak, but because I don't live in that part of the country, I'm not sure how much I can realistically do - transport would be a problem for me, as it isn't a journey that I could do by car, and public transport takes most of the day, but there might be things I can help with from a distance ...
Any advice on how to proceed when the worst happens would be very much appreciated.
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