I know this doesn’t apply to all, but out of our 5 children, 2 went to University, 2 went straight into work, 1 into banking, 1 into the CS.
There’s a big age gap between them all, 42, 40, 28, 25 & 23.
The two oldest have (mortgaged) houses, the other three still live at home, but the daughter at 28 and her wife just in process of purchasing their own house and should complete by the end of the summer, and daughter 25, has also started the process of buying her own flat alone.
The only one who worries us is son 23, he’s a professional musician with his own band and has been at home much less frequently this year as he plays around 4 gigs a month across the UK and is booked for festivals across the summer. He also produces and sells merch relating to the band. His current gf is their official photographer (her job role) so the likelyhood of them actually ever getting a mortgage so look slim. However, they are quite fortunate as gf parents own two houses and have stated that when they retire (maybe end of next year) they will rent their current home to them both.
All bar son 23, have occupational pensions in place. All have no intention of working til they are 80!
We worry about them all, this is natural as they are our children, but I genuinely don’t believe they face worse challenges than we did, but the challenges are different.
I’m probably amongst the youngest here, (maybe?) and had paid from age 13, starting full time work at 18, worked all the way through bringing up 4 children, with very scant maternity leave and at the end of my working life cared for both my elderly and infirm parents (only child) with lots of support from daughter 25!
Life is tough.
The one thing I have noticed is younger generations do seem to have much bigger expectations during their lives, (some) definitely seem to “want it all”, the nice house, the new car, holidays abroad, everything brand new.
I laugh when I look back to some of the places I rented and when I bought my first property, at 25, I had literally nothing in it, sold my car to buy white goods and took a second job for a year.
Our children and grandchildren will get by, just as we and our parents and grand parents did.