I'm not sure that it does give more choice - my MIL has recently gone into a care home (self-funded), and looked at several. All took state-funded residents, and a couple didn't have a place for MIL until another resident vacated their room.
I may be missing something, but I don't think she had any more choice than had she not been self-funding. The only difference is that her savings are dwindling fast. We (her children and ILs) all want what's best for MIL, and she's compos mentis, and can decide for herself anyway, so that's not an issue at all, but I don't understand why so many people seem to think that paying for care gives you advantages - in her case it didn't.
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