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Are Gransnetters just vicious online trolls?

(279 Posts)
madamecholet Thu 14-Jul-16 14:11:19

Well, we are apparently a bunch of bullies on this site:

www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-3689188/The-vicious-online-trolls-grannies-according-fellow-gran-crossed-unleashed-spite.html

Some poor innocent (who is media savvy enough to get an article published in a national newspaper) is in a state of shock after posting on Gransnet. A whole page in DM basically complaining that she posted on an internet forum and is shocked that not everyone found her as witty and amusing as she clearly thinks she is.

Shame on you grannies for upsetting the poor little flower! On the bright side though, she did manage to get her article published, so that was probably a nice little earner for her.grin

jinglbellsfrocks Fri 15-Jul-16 16:53:14

Dunno dj. Grannynet closed down.

madamecholet Fri 15-Jul-16 17:10:02

Why would other posters want to gang up on jings? It was one of her pithy posts that first attracted me to the site and made me think GN was a lively online community that I might like to join. I feel that if you are confident enough to post publicly on an internet forum, you have to also have the confidence to accept disagreement or criticism from others. Smileless had a go at me early on in this thread and she is perfectly entitled to her opinion (although, of course, she is wrong)grin!

breeze Fri 15-Jul-16 17:12:40

Ooh chuckle, I have to love you Jings. You really should run for government!

Galen Fri 15-Jul-16 17:19:54

NO! nothing less than PM for * jingle*. ( come to think about it, she could be TM in disguise. We have no idea what she looks like!)

breeze Fri 15-Jul-16 17:50:34

You couldn't make it up JBF. However....... If you do go tomorrow, hope you're o.k. smile

Leticia Fri 15-Jul-16 17:56:14

I think that you have to allow for the fact that you have no idea who reads things that you post online. Gransnet is no different from anywhere else and you will get people who are forthright and tell things as they see them.
I can't see the fuss about that, the Daily Mail must have been short of news. I didn't see the original and probably wouldn't have bothered to comment. Obviously she thought it funny- personally I thought it rather unkind and unnecessary and very divorced from her actual backgrounds.
Cliques, if there are any, don't bother me- I have always found those outside them far more interesting.

jinglbellsfrocks Fri 15-Jul-16 18:19:55

Well, I hope GNHQ reads some of this. They might let me off the norty step. smile

Katek Fri 15-Jul-16 18:23:39

There was once a photo of Jings on a thread and since then I have seen a smart lady on an advert who looks remarkably like her. Are you moonlighting as a 'mature model' when you're not posting on here Jings?!? Hope you've managed to sort out your holiday. smile

jinglbellsfrocks Fri 15-Jul-16 19:11:03

Yes.

jinglbellsfrocks Fri 15-Jul-16 19:11:18

#pantsonfire

Katek Fri 15-Jul-16 19:16:54

Lol! grin

Maggiemaybe Fri 15-Jul-16 19:21:18

Actually, that picture looked remarkably like my grammar school headteacher. If I hadn't read her obituary, I'd have been scared.

phoenix Fri 15-Jul-16 19:23:46

Although not abused or trolled on here, some lovely member saw fit to print off a thread and send it through the post to my boss, obviously hoping that I would lose my job as a result!

whitewave Fri 15-Jul-16 19:30:19

Blimey! phoenix there are some real charmers on here aren't there?

Blinko Fri 15-Jul-16 19:33:24

Lully, imo there's very little that's 'not for sneering at in the DM'. That's what the DM does.

FarNorth Fri 15-Jul-16 19:36:17

The OP who had such a terrible reaction from granny-trolls had posted a silly piece ridiculing people s/he surely knows nothing about.
So that set the tone for replies.

madamecholet Fri 15-Jul-16 19:38:22

It may not have been a member Phoenix, as anyone with access to the internet can read the posts.

Galen Fri 15-Jul-16 20:18:24

Jing do you have pearls like mine? ( see soops kitchen)

Christinefrance Fri 15-Jul-16 20:26:12

Time to call a halt to this don't you think, in the light of events in Nice our hurt feelings really are not important.

MiniMouse Fri 15-Jul-16 20:56:38

jings as you're becoming a bit of a GN sleb how about going on I'm A Celebrity Get Me Out Of Here? It would get you off the norty step and you'd liven things up a bit grin

DaphneBroon Fri 15-Jul-16 21:15:27

I agree, somehow Jingl has presumably inadvertently made this "all about me" - I thought it was about telling a so-called blogger what we thought of her pathetic attempt at either humour or stirring up some sort of Royalist reaction.
In the bigger picture, it is all very trivial sad

jinglbellsfrocks Fri 15-Jul-16 21:20:41

I've already said how trivial this is in the light of Nice. Noth bothered at all about being a celeb anywhere. My cousin is dying. I'm not in the best of health. My holiday has turned into a trip into the mouth of hell. I can't get much l;ower.

moon

jinglbellsfrocks Fri 15-Jul-16 21:21:48

Don't get me wrong there. My holiday as such is unimportant. The dreadful tragedy is the worst of it.

GandTea Fri 15-Jul-16 21:42:28

The tragedy has happened, we can do nothing about it apart from sympathising with the bereaved. We can do something about the here and now. lets concentrate on making that better. Other wise those poor sous will have died in vain.
Jings, not sure what has gone astray with your holiday, but try to look at the best parts of it.

Maggiemaybe Fri 15-Jul-16 21:42:58

No, DaphneBroon, quite a few of us might have made the tail end of it "all about jingl". Because we are having a bit of fun and because we like her.

And because if we all don sackcloth and ashes when something tragic happens, we may as well give up, because the people who want us to be miserable have won.