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Melania and equality

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thatbags Thu 26-Jan-17 08:07:12

Certain pictures and 'stories' about Donald and Melania Trump are appearing repeatedly on Twitter. It's interesting to compare interpretations.

This one, where Donald gets out of the limo and goes up the steps to meet the Obamas while Melania gets out of the far side of the vehicle and walks up by herself has provoked a lot of discussion reaction.

The most common interpretation is that Donald is a boor/ungentlemanly for not waiting for Melania and walking up the steps with her. I suspect this is based on the premise that he's a boor anyway and, besides, people hate him.

Another interpretation is that he is more of a gender egalitarian than we think because he was behaving just as he would have done if Melania were a man.

The latter interpretation made me wonder if Theresa May 'waits for' Philip May in similar circumstances or whether he just 'follows' in due course?

POGS Sat 28-Jan-17 20:50:22

thatbags

Forgive me for asking you in person but what did you think of the Steve Bell / Guardian cartoon I have mentioned at 18.11 ?

I certainly don't believe in it being banned, taken down, anything like that, certainly not my style to censure. It was a cartoon I found to be 'wanting' especially given the so called credibility of the source.

Hope I am not being pushy in asking for your thought.

thatbags Sat 28-Jan-17 20:52:59

Haven't seen it yet, pogs. I'll go and have a look. I suspect, in advance, that even if I think it offensive I still Steve Bell has a right to draw it and get it published.

whitewave Sat 28-Jan-17 21:00:18

Modern stomachs are clearly not so strong as they were in the 18th century! Tastes in satire changes over time.

POGS Sat 28-Jan-17 21:00:23

Agreed

POGS Sat 28-Jan-17 21:01:03

Agreed, obviously to thatbags .

whitewave Sat 28-Jan-17 21:02:08

Oh so you don't agree with me then sad

thatbags Sat 28-Jan-17 21:03:30

Ah, yes, I had seen it. Probably via Twitter. Shrug. I think it's a revolting image. I do understand what it's 'saying', and I disagree. I have no problem with it being published. It's a political comment.

Snarking about Melania Trump's looks is not political comment. It's just bitching. If people want to bitch about her they have every right to do so but I can't help feeling they are doing themselves a disservice rather than her.

I think I can see what you're getting at though, pogs. Maybe the Steve Bell cartoon is political bitching. I suppose it is but it doesn't feel personal to me. I think he's attacking what he sees as the political position of the British Prime Minister with regard to the US President. Looks like old hat to me, only slightly different from the much scoffed at Blair and Bush 'relationship' because TM is a woman.

POGS Sat 28-Jan-17 21:05:37

Thank you for replying thatbags.

thatbags Sat 28-Jan-17 21:26:20

"Oh no the argument used in every discussion about women since the year dot! Women who wear flat shoes are lesbians as well"

What was this in response to, trisher? Seems a bit out of the blue.

thatbags Sat 28-Jan-17 21:32:50

oh, I think I see... the not looking half as good remark.

Haha! I'll have you know I've been called a lesbian when out with a female friend (I always wear flat shoes and always have), I've been taken for a "laddy" (well, the laddy wasn't sure) when riding my bicycle, assumed to be a vegetarian (me!? ha! again), and called a hippy, which I'm not, loads of times.

I still think bitching about attractive women just because one can because she's in the public eye and because one doesn't like her husband's politics is based of envy. And is a bad reflection on the people who do it.

durhamjen Sat 28-Jan-17 21:42:19

"But one Manchester man has already seen the dangers of telling lies on his CV.

In Manchester this year, Wade Jordan was jailed for three years for fraud and perverting the course of justice."

Just so you know it wasn't a lie or exaggeration, roses. Lying on your CV is fraud.
You can get up to ten years in jail for it in this country. Of course, being the first lady in America, it doesn't matter, does it?
I know which of the first ladies I'd rather my grandaughters thought about as a role model.

Ana Sat 28-Jan-17 21:50:45

Yes, Theresa May certainly is indeed a good role model durhamjen, glad you realise that! smile

whitewave Sat 28-Jan-17 21:57:36

Which president is she married to ana?

Ana Sat 28-Jan-17 22:02:42

Oh dear, as po-faced as ever! grin

(still waiting to hear about the 'violent language' some of us are supposed to have supported, but I won't hold my breath...hmm)

whitewave Sat 28-Jan-17 22:03:38

What violent language?

Ana Sat 28-Jan-17 22:04:46

Ask MaizieD.

whitewave Sat 28-Jan-17 22:07:09

?

whitewave Sat 28-Jan-17 22:07:36

I can't imagine her using violent language.

Ana Sat 28-Jan-17 22:52:45

Do you actually read threads before you comment, whitewave?

MaizieD Sat 28-Jan-17 18:27:00

Well I never! All this sanctimony from the posters who defended the use of violent language

Ana Sat 28-Jan-17 22:54:18

So we're all in the dark as to this alleged 'violent language'.

durhamjen Sat 28-Jan-17 22:56:40

All in the dark? Not in the dark at all. Just not as bothered as you.

whitewave Sat 28-Jan-17 22:56:45

I was replying to yours ana about me being po faced grin and then the use of violent language. I didn't realise that you were talking to someone else!!

whitewave Sat 28-Jan-17 22:57:34

Sounds like a storm in a teacup to me

durhamjen Sat 28-Jan-17 23:09:42

Maybe she meant defending the use of torture? That sounds quite violent to me.

rosesarered Sat 28-Jan-17 23:21:44

We don't know what Maizie meant at all, it was a weird remark....there has been no violent language that was defended by anybody.Nobody here has defended the use of torture either djen you are now casting about wildly for reasons.
The man who lied on his cv.......what job had he applied for that he was sent to prison, because we were talking about saying a person had a degree when they hadn't, you certainly don't get banged up for that! grin So, I am thinking it was something along the lines of driving a HGV or masquerading as a doctor/policeman?
People add all sorts to their cv to enhance it, so we are not talking 'normal' here are we?