daphne I'm not as articulate or learned as most of you, but what did I want to achieve?
Fairness. Equality with the rest of the world. At the moment we seemed to be overrun by people from Eastern Europe whilst previously they were from all over, admittedly many from the Commonwealth which is apparently discouraged now, but worldwide. I feel too that the people on the ground in many Eastern European countries are suffering from loosing too many good workers creamed off to the richer west. Workers trained by them to boot.
Pride in being British again. A silly thing you probably think. Why would I want to be British? But I do. My parents and grandparents fought to be British and I'm proud to be so. (In fact don't tell, but I'm quite proud to be English - but that's really looked down on.) This really hit home when a friends child was told by her teacher that she wasn't British, she was European. I don't feel European - although being from Norfolk I'm proud too of my Dutch connections. They're family, but don't live in the same house.
To have our government in control. I can understand exactly why Scotland would want to be independent from London. I feel exactly the same about Brussels. I get a bit confused here I admit, as our ties with Scotland go back a very long way and I like them being part of Britain - but a federal Britain could work. Only four countries with a common heritage.
We're not equal within the EU. We contribute a very large chunk of funds but it's obvious that, because we have exemptions, the other main countries despise us, otherwise Mr Cameron would have got somewhere with his negotiations instead of the crumbs he was thrown. Basically he was patted on the head and sent back into his kennel. We punch well below our weight. We blotted our copy book by not rushing into the original club so had to grovel to be accepted in in the end - but its very grudging and I don't think many really like us.
The EU was a good concept although not as good as the Common Market which I was more than happy with. But it's not working. It's a vast Leviathan lumbering inefficiently along absorbing money. Too much is being wasted. This is the first time so many countries have come together and tried to become one. A prototype. And like most prototypes it doesn't really work. It needs to disband and start again from scratch. It's not a coming together of equals but two or three powerful Western Countries lauding it over the rest. Had it have stuck to the nine more equal Western European countries I think there's a chance we could have made a go of it, but it's imploding in slow motion. OK, I'm a rat wanting to leave a sinking ship - but rats survive and there are other ships.