POGS
With reference to a 2nd (3rd?) referendum you ask:
I voted Remain but I also accept The Prime Minister , whoever he/she may be and from whatever Party he/she may be from , should do as the electorate majority wants it to do when a democratic vote has taken place.
The alternative style of governance has another name does it not.
Firstly I would say that the 2016 referendum was advisory; Cameron had no right to 'promise' that the result would be accepted. By doing that he exceeded his executive powers, as only Parliament, the legislature, had the right to make that decision and they didn't. Parliament voted to hold an advisory referendum.
But, as we cannot change the past. If we held another 'advisory' referendum and the result were reversed; the electorate then advising the government that they wanted to remain in the EU, what then would be your thoughts?
As for your other questions, why insist that we Remainers answer them? We actually want to Remain in the EU. All we are doing here, ATM, is looking at both parties' attempts to come up with a solution. We're not particularly approving one or the other.
Why don't you get the Leavers to answer your questions? (And I wish you the Best of British with that...)
Of course, the enormous fly in the ointment is the problem of Northern Ireland, the Good Friday Agreement and the NI border. This has not been solved at all and is puzzling a great many people.
As for your hint that to ignore the result of the 2016 referendum would mean that the government would be acting as a dictatorship and not democratically I rather think that is happening anyway. The initial 'promise' was an abuse of Executive powers; trying to invoke A50 without parliamentary approval was an attempt to exceed Executive powers and the attempt to assume Henry VIII powers over the EU withdrawal legislation is also a step towards removing power from our sovereign parliament.
Reversing the result of a badly thought out and badly run advisory referendum with the approval of Parliament doesn't, in comparison, seem to me to be a dictatorial act.