Fresh of the internet... "no Commonwealth country has any political jurisdiction over any other, neither is there any central form of government. Some states retain Queen Elizabeth II as their head of state and she is the head of the Commonwealth. The states are politically and legally independent and can leave the Commonwealth of their own accord. The US has its own Commonwealth States". Apparently, we are now known as a Commonwealth of Nations and not British Commonwealth. I wonder who will take on the title as Head of CofN when the Queen retires. (Zimbabwe, no longer under the rule of Mugabe, has now had the "signal" from the British FO that they can re-join the CofN if they wish.) So. New title? Dame of the Commonwealth of Nations - whoever these nations are now or in the future. Or, as suggested in other posts, just get rid of this outdated ritual.