Personally I hate being patted on the head or being called 'Pet'! I may be getting on a bit but I have all my own teeth, I am able bodied, get lots of exercise walking and cycling, eat properly, do crosswords, etc etc. Being old does not make me a bed blocker, nor does it make me feel guilty for not downsizing. I do feel sorry for youngsters as it is hard for them, especially where tuition fees are concerned....which is a bugbear of mine..BUT we found it hard too, so did our parents and our grandparents had to live through 2 world wars plus rationing and the grief of having lost sons and daughters, husbands or lovers. Life can be hard for those who are not rich. For hoo ray Henries life is a doddle and they do not know what to spend their money on.....maybe they could set up hostels for the homeless, or work in soup kitchens, fund drop in food banks or donate the interest on their savings to charity? I cannot do that, but I do give the free item from 'buy one get one free' to people who live on the street, and I do take my used books etc to charity shops. Every little helps.