Geri this is about your post, your comments to me and my response to you, not the rest of the Metropolis. It also seems that you think that everyone that lives outside of London is narrow and parochial...no you don't, your remarks are addressed to me, therefore personal.
Like you, I too am a citizen of the world, but first and foremost a citizen of this country a country that nurtured, educated and looked after me and mine. Your assumptions demonstrate a lot of stereotyping.-
You then say: “ Those who can spell and put together a concise sentence are often thought to be the metropolitan elite, but I’m not". On Gransnet, I would say 99.9 percent of people, as you put it, “can spell and put together a concise sentence” at the very least, they are not all, however, again, as you put it, “thought to be the metropolitan elite,” nor are most thought to be anything other than what they choose to share with each other on here, in a whole range of wonderful discussion, and views on all sorts of topics, which one would expect.
Obviously ones political leanings come through, as one would expect. Most accept other people’s views and have a healthy debate without surrendering their own viewpoint. However in your case and with a less than handful of others, conversations can be going nicely and then when something is disproved of or not agreed with, or an alternate source of so called evidence is produce, there is always a personalized nasty aside, or put down lurking in the wings. When people respond, this small group, including you, twist things around and then you all as a ‘gang’ attack that person.
You say that you come over, or you believe you are thought to be of “the metropolitan elite,” because you can “spell and put together a concise sentence”. Well! All I can say about that is, I hope that the “metropolitan elite” are capable of a lot more than that. Nor I should say do you fit my profile of “metropolitan elite”. Although my view is restricted to your behaviour and views on Gransnet, so nowhere near a full picture of you, or indeed you of me.
My view of your views, are that you support and hold extreme far right views possibly even further right than far. Whilst you incorrectly label me with your assumptions and stereotyping as “patronising and parochial” these views are formed from my views from my responses or postings, it does not tell you what sort of person I am, nor should you stereotype me because of my political stance. As you have.
Just to clarify. This exchange, the words we use, are about you and me they are not meant to generalise or stereotype 8 million others in London or the country outside of London
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It seems it is OK for you to make assumptions about my world view and stereotype who and what you assume I am, but it is not ok as far as you are concerned for me to do the same about you. Such double standards. I would love to say 'typical' but that would be stereotyping you.
You tell me that I no “nothing of the real life of others”. How you came to this conclusion is a mystery to me. What we do know about each other based on our political stance and the North South divide is very little. You are far left what does that tell me about you.... not what you think it does I imagine. You believe I am of the right what does that tell you about me...not what you think it does I imagine. A Dangerous stereotyping, the sort that leads to further and further division.
The arrogance demonstrated by the assumption that because a person leans to the political right, that they are not as concerned about the society we live in as much as a labelled socialist. Caring for and seeking equality in society is not the exclusive domain of the left/far left. Bruce Adams of the Spectator put it nicely I think: “Conservatism is no creed for the intellectually limited. It requires hard thinking. The socialists have an easier life. First, they have a secular teleology: socialism. Second, assuming that history is on their side, many lefties feel entitled to lapse into a complacent assumption of moral superiority.” This is what I think you and less than a handful of others do, and in doing so, fall into the trap of your view or no view, in attempting to achieve that at all cost, you attack the person.
You should know Geri, that I feel bullied by you and less than a handful of others on here. I feel that I have to stand up to you and if that makes me seem arrogant so be it. At every opportunity you attempt to divert, deliberately misunderstand, misinform and manipulate in support of your views. There is always a sense for me at least that you and less than a handful of others have a far left activist agenda and this colours your view of me, and others that have a different view, especially those of us who can do more than spell and construct a sentence as you put it. Those of us who are thinking and analysing and presenting reasoned alternatives for debate get a particular kicking.
I notice, those who do not share your views are labelled/stereotyped as being "Parochial", not quite as bright as you...not getting "it", confused, now these are not always words you use but other do. I get it don't you worry; I just don't want "it". I will not be bullied, never will. If that comes over to you as arrogance, parochial middle class or any of the other labels you might want to use, from your self appointed superior ideological stance, then that is your choice, but don't expect me not to fight back.
"Gerispringer Thu 31-May-18 20:22:22
Ally, ally ally, Your narrow, parochial and patronising view of the world indicates you know nothing about the real lives of others."