Buffybee, no you never said you are a new member. But I took a long sabatical from mid November until recently- as I found it all a bit too much. And before now, have never come across your name- and yet you sound so familiar. Your turn of phrase, your tone and language- so it made me wonder.
However tough things get on GN, I have vowed to never change my name, as it is, as GN rules make it very clear, dishonest and a breach to trust. Not saying you did - but we know some members have changed many times. Normally it takes a little while to find out who they are, again, by opinion and how it is expressed, tone, turn of phrase, etc.
So if you have recently joined, welcome. We all have a twin or two somewhere, I suppose.