Sorry, I don't care for her at all. Harry reminds me of the Duke of Windsor (besotted and weak) and she of the Duchess, strong willed and rather vulgar! You could point out to your kind friends that spending vast sums of money on frivolity will not sit well in your new position, so a more modest affair would be more appropriate! I'm sure they'd have understood?!!!
The Duke and Duchess of Cambridge however, seem much more like normal royals, down to earth, and, dare I say it, dutiful, which I suppose equals dull, but at least it's safe!!