Dinahmo - I was gobsmacked (as they say) by your post addressed to me saying I should have provided cultural activities for my children. Of course I did ! They had all those experiences, just as I did in my youth. What I was complaining about was the lack of such opportunities for ALL children in many state schools, the lack of such topics as everyday, normal discussion. Such things need to be introduced in school for the many children whose parents do not provide them.
I was looking recently at the websites of two senior schools that my grandson might go to next year. The independent school he will go to if my son can afford it (he has a place) offers music teaching for violin and other strings, woodwind, brass and piano among others. The state school, which has a good reputation, mentions visiting teachers of drums, keyboards, guitar - not one orchestral instrument. That tells me a lot about attitudes and assumptions.