What is a 'rabid feminist'?
I think I am feminist. I firmly believe that everyone (male/female, young/old, black/white, rich/poor gay/straight etc) is equal, and should be given the same chances in life.
I also think that there is no right way of living, so for some people this will mean that women do X, whereas to others it means that they do Y. If it works for the people concerned, it's not for me to comment unless it impacts on others in some way.
I certainly don't hate men. I married a lovely one, and am mother to another who is equally fab. I am very anti patriarchy, however, and think it is bad for both men and women.
I get confused by all the theory, though. Intersectionism, trans-exclusion, radical feminism etc - all of that makes my head hurt. I prefer to take everyone as I find them, treat people the same, and speak up when I see that this isn't happening.