trisher, there is feminism the theory and feminism as it affects our lives.
My dear friend, who married out of uni, had a family, stayed home and raised the family, watched her husband advance up the career ladder and had a lovely life. Lived internationally, following hubby and his work. All lovely. Great standard of living.
Then, 19 years in, he left her. Has remarried twice since then. Has the same great standard of living.
She had v little recent or relevant work experience and struggled to find a job. Child support cut off when her youngest was 18. Now she lives in a small rented apartment. No security. Low wages. She would do things v differently were she to do it all again. This genuinely WAS a friend of mine. However, it was also my mothers life. Which I saw and lived with her, in poverty.
If you choose to remain out of paid employment and don't have inherited money, you are playing with fire. THIS is feminism in real life. Not just theory.
If women don't swim in the capitalistic system we live in, they sink and drown. I watched my mother drown in it. I knew at 18 I would not let that happen to me.
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