I think that is because you have totally misunderstood what many leavers are about. We may all dream dreams. We are not necessarily sharing them with you and those like you.
I can remember the day after the 2016 vote. I really felt quite positive and optimistic for the future. I remember passing a lot of people in the supermarket that day as I went shopping and saw lots of smiles and heard lots of helpful comments from others. Nothing major, just an uplift in the ambiance.
Then some remainers started whinging and crying and painting themselves blue in the streets. They started using insults about why those who voted leave were thick, swivel eyed, gammon, fruit cakes, loons , old, going to die next week, were so stupid they had no right to vote , ignorant, they didnt know what they voted for ..... and so it went on.
For a while longer things seemed positive but then the depression set in again and people became sour and now all I see is bitterness and anger. Life has returned to what it was before we voted.
I still have my dreams but they will be on hold and unspoken now until we leave. Hopefully Boris will do the deed. But I can see he has a major fight from the anti democratic remainers on his hands. Remain voters seem to shout louder than their real numbers. Their rudeness and insults means most of us keep our thoughts to ourselves and we wait in the shadows .
Project fear and intimidation is alive and well, especially on GN I think.