After re-marrying (in 2004) at 57 after being widowed for fifteen years, I asked to work four days, rather than five, in order to spend more time with my new husband. We had agreed that we would continue to live apart for the three years I still needed to work in order to reach pension age, and not lose a valuable employer pension. This meant that we could spend long weekends together every week. This meant that I worked fewer hours and was paid less as a consequence, but was still expected to complete the same level of work. I worked for an American Brokerage company, and my job was clerical support. This worked well for me. It enabled me to work out how living with a smaller income would be managed (that would be inevitable when I retired), and actually ended up with more holiday days in the working year. Not ideal for everyone, but it worked for me. The work was fairly repetitive, and I was the only one carrying out these tasks in my unit.
Good Morning Sunday 10th May 2026


