Brexit dividing my family.

Dear oh dear, some of the posts on here!
Well said Monica and Sharon and anyone else who brings a bit of reason and common sense to the (what amounts to) mass hysteria over us leaving the EU.

dear oh dear indeed lemon, indeed.

Nah, won't wash- won't bite. Wait and see ...

I am sorry maddyone that you are also about to lose close contact with part of your family who are moving to Australia. Doctors are undervalued in this country, and like a lot of things that were blamed on the EU, it was the fault of successive British governments.

My family would not be moving were it not for this brexit nonsense.

Your family, like mine are the sort of people we cannot afford to lose.

There is nothing good to be said for brexit.

I still don't understand how some people can read about people's families moving away and not empathise with them .

Said it before, but I do think the most damaging part of all this will be the massive brain and entrepreneurial drain. BE they doctors, or nurses, or researchers, or entrepreneurs of all kind- first the EU ones, then those from other parts of the world who are working in cooperation and collaboration with them and EU grants, etc - and then our very own - who do not want to be trapped in a 'little insular Britain' where they can no longer work in collaboration and who are not valued or respected.

Call it hysteria if you wish - I'll call it a tragedy. Because although it will be very difficult to travel and work abroad for unskilled people - it will remain easy for those with the right skills and experience. They will go- and I can't blame them... for sure.

As I understand it, the point of staying in the EU is freedom of movement for all (and I’ve benefited hugely from this with a foot in two campos, as it were).

So why are Remainers complaining that your children are availing themselves of this benefit, moving their families to the EU and blaming it on Brexit? Isn’t that the point?

Because they're being forced to go, not choosing to do so. And also, imo, the point of staying in the EU is that it's probably been one of the greatest peace keeping initiatives in the history of the world and we're hell bent on destroying it.......

I don't think we remain voters got the full picture, now I'm excited that were opening up to the whole world - Let's face it we were discriminating against our friends in the wider world in favour of a smaller market of cheap labour.

GillT57 I agree with you. My son in law is from the EU. All my close family voted to remain but I found it very hard when some family voted to leave saying they didn't want immigrants in the country because they are a drain on the UK. They were talking about my very hard working son in law and my grandchildren. They have made them feel unwanted and unwelcome and made life much more difficult for them here.

Jura2. Wrong. I voted to remain and I would do the same again. However, I would not fall out with much loved family if they had a different view.

Labaik I am absolutely with you. I have said it before, and I will say it again. In the 75 years between 1870 and 1945 there were three major European Wars. In the 75 years between 1945 and 2020 there have been none.

What other reason can anyone want to remain in the EU?

The United Nations is responsible for the peace we have in Europe not the EU (or Common Market) as it was originally known.

I think there are plenty of other reasons MOnica, but for me it is the reason which underpins all the others.

ginny - I have not fallen out with anyone - just put distance. It is not about a mere matter of opinion- it is about things coming through which are very unpleasant - racism and totaly lack of empathy for others.

Take my Trump loving cousins - it is not about preferring Trump to Obama, as such. It is about what they stand for- and then for the sheer racism attached- saying he is not even entitled to be American, has a false passport, and is an AlQuaida plant - and that Michelle is the most ugly stupid bitch and looks like a monkey. And for me, sorry - that is not acceptable.

But my last post was about the inevitable brain, skills and entrepreneurial drain - the EU ones, those from different ethnic groups, and our own too.

Don't make me laugh ananimous. Sorry, but the UN really hasn't been as effective a peace-keeper as people hoped. The reason we have had peace in Europe is because people have mingled more freely and done business with people in other countries. As a result, people have learnt more about other people and cultures. Nobody in their right mind wants to start a war with customers/suppliers, when profits are involved.

Whilst not minimising the value of the EEC/EU in peacekeeping for Europe I think NATO has been a major factor since inception in 1949 which people rarely credit.

PS. Another thing which has meant I have zilch respect for those who voted to leave is when they call people names such as "arch-remoaner". But it's OK for those who voted remain to call leavers "scum of the earth"? So we should take any notice of your opinion, why exactly?

Respectfully to all other posters, I think it's NATO that has been responsible for keeping the peace in Europe in the last 70 years.

No the UN is not responsible for the peace in Europe. It has no powers in Europe and could only offer to intervene when a difficult situation looks like ending in violence. That situation has not arisen for 75 years.

NATO is an agreement that Europe and North America will work in concert to protect NATO members from external aggressors.

There has been no major European War since 1945 because the EU has brought most European Countries together, to work together for the common good - and like the measles vaccine so many countries are part of the EU that those countries outside act as if they were members, because there really is no alternative.

Oh dear! Too much flawed logic bumping up against itself here, lol!

We are going to lose the European policing network - which makes less safe.

...So lemme get this straight...

*"Commerce stopped wars in Europe"
aaaaaand
"If we leave there will be war in Europe"*


This is what level of common sense were dealing with.

Mmmkay...

I wish people would stop using Gransnet to promote the Labour party. Chats with their deputy leader. Nonsense policies. Scaremongering NHS stories. Anti brexit. Stop trying to manipulate people's votes.
It's creepy.

The main purpose of the EU from the start was not commerce it was peace between European countries. Building up common practices, standards and business methods between the members are some of the range of methods used to build up these close relationships.

The Erasmus programme has been used to build up links between universities and young academics through shared research programmes in science and other subjects.

DS is an academic and he has close links with universities in the EU through EU funded initiatives. These will be snapped when we leave the EU. Personal links will remain, but the official links that mean he has been able to build links with new scholars by being on the examining boards of universities in France and Luxembourg will end as will exchange studentships.

Experiencednotold As a professional information analyst I believe I’m entirely capable of forming my own decision, which was connected to longer term economics and a belief that the U.K. is better determining its own destiny without interference - excellent post, I very much agree with you, it's all about the economy for me too and I voted leave because I think the UK's economy AND currency should NOT be tied to the rest of the EU, and if we stay in, my concern is that we will eventually join the Euro, which would eventually be catastrophic for us long term.

Jura2, it was the comment about those who think it is silly to fall out being those who voted leave and think that Brexit will be wonderful thing that I was referring to. Certainly not true of me .