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Will the remainers admit defeat?

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Chestnut Fri 13-Dec-19 12:27:27

I have always said that if there was another referendum the country would vote to leave again. We have voted to leave the EU three times!

2016 Referendum - the country voted to leave
2017 General Election - Hung parliament and a bit of a hiccup due to Theresa May running a poor campaign.
2019 European Election - the country voted to leave when the Brexit Party turned the country Brexit blue.
2019 General Election - the country voted to leave with a massive Conservative majority.

How many more times does the country need to say we want to leave the EU?

Chestnut Tue 17-Dec-19 19:33:34

Spot on Smileless, we have see this last year minority groups causing gridlock in the HoC. Nobody wants that. People are not willing to accept a majority vote any more.

Smileless2012 Tue 17-Dec-19 19:35:17

And they are the very people who claim this country is undemocratic Chestnut.

M0nica Tue 17-Dec-19 20:04:05

In democratic countries many parties are represented in their parliaments and they have to co-operate for the good of the country,

You mean countries like Israel, Belgium or Italy? Israel is about to have its third election in a year. Belgium was without a government for 549 days because the parties could not agree. Italy has had at least 61 adminstrations since 1945.

And I seem to remember that our coalition wasn't exactly the mosts successful government we have ever seen.

M0nica Tue 17-Dec-19 20:06:41

And I forgot to mention Northern Ireland. Very nearly three years without an effective government because the power sharers have fallen out.

varian Tue 17-Dec-19 21:08:00

I believe that the coalition government of 2010-2015 was very much better than the unfettered Tory government of the last four years.

M0nica Tue 17-Dec-19 22:37:55

Yes, but what about all the others?

Alexa Fri 20-Dec-19 08:40:34

" Cannot be worse than the last three or so years of wrangling, back biting, stalling." Quoted.

Yes it can! Have you forgotten Spain, Germany, and Italy when people were so disaffected they voted for charismatic right wingers?

varian Fri 20-Dec-19 09:25:23

The country has not voted to leave. This year both in the EU election and the general election, most voters supported parties which were either pro-remain or pro-second referendum, confirming what polls have shown for the past three years.

Chestnut Fri 20-Dec-19 09:37:04

Read my original post varian. The country has voted three times to leave.
Will the remainers admit defeat? Clearly the answer is no for some people.
Were you banging your drum in 1997 when Tony Blair won his first election with only 43.2%? Or do you only bang it when the result is not what you want?

Urmstongran Fri 20-Dec-19 09:38:37

Today is the day of the Withdrawal Agreement Bill this morning.

So here it is, Merry Xmas
Everybody's having fun
Look to the future now
It's only just begun!

??

Greta8 Fri 20-Dec-19 09:45:48

Chestnut - I think the situation is rather more nuanced than defeat or victory. Yes we will be leaving the EU - whether that will prove to be a good or bad thing will play out over the decades to come. It is interesting to see that the Conservative government have already take the opportunity to water down workers rights in the Bill. No-one can know for sure what will happen. Most of us have already moved on considerably from the Referendum result to try to prepare to deal with the consequences, good or bad, for the younger members of our families.

Greta Fri 20-Dec-19 09:59:48

Well said, Greta8. To claim victory at this stage based on ”Get Brexit Done” is surely foolish. There are too many imponderables and the notion that the UK will have the upper hand in future negotiations with the EU and the rest of the world is equally foolish, in my opinion. What is lacking is a sense of realism.

Granny23 Fri 20-Dec-19 10:36:02

www.facebook.com/watch/?v=578230243013515

Well, I am a remainer who will fight tooth and nail to remain. The prospect of remaining in an undemocratic, divided, Brexited UK feels me with dread, while the prospect of a free Scotland. an equal member of the EU in her own right, gives me hope.

MawB Fri 20-Dec-19 10:40:44

Will people now stop dividing our society into Remainers and Leavers and focus instead on “haves” and “havre-nots” and concentrate their energies on social injustice here and abroad.
I am sick of the infighting and backbiting and jibes and recriminations. Look at Syria, look at the refugees risking their lives in little boats and realise that whatever your views on Brexit - there are so many so much worse off. ?

Chestnut Fri 20-Dec-19 10:50:29

There are thousands of other issues to consider MawB but this thread is about the referendum and election results and for that we are leavers or remainers, with some people still unable to accept that the result was not what they wanted.

MawB Fri 20-Dec-19 10:53:24

And my point Chestnut is a plea for these divisions not to be perpetuated further.
Banging on o a variety of threads gets us nowhere

varian Fri 20-Dec-19 10:56:14

There is a difference between the Tories winning an election on the basis of FPTP and saying the country voted to leave. The first is true. The second is untrue.

GagaJo Fri 20-Dec-19 11:04:23

MawB Fri 20-Dec-19 10:40:44
Will people now stop dividing our society into Remainers and Leavers and focus instead on “haves” and “havre-nots” and concentrate their energies on social injustice here and abroad.
I am sick of the infighting and backbiting and jibes and recriminations. Look at Syria, look at the refugees risking their lives in little boats and realise that whatever your views on Brexit - there are so many so much worse off. ?

EXACTLY!

Greta Fri 20-Dec-19 11:19:28

Chestnut: ...some people still unable to accept that the result was not what they wanted.

I accept the result, Chestnut, but what I can't accept is that 52% of voters necessarily got it right. So, will you now accept that your vote to leave the EU may not turn out to be the right decision when all is said and done.

Chestnut Fri 20-Dec-19 11:20:50

Well stop posting on a thread which is about the referendum then!

GagaJo Fri 20-Dec-19 11:21:28

WHERE does it say its about the referendum?

GillT57 Fri 20-Dec-19 11:24:21

I had to turn the tv off this morning as Johnson and his smug front bench outlined what they had in mind for our future. There is little I can do to change this most unwelcome result, and with no effective opposition I can see no chance of this ghastly juggernaut of deregulation, demolition of rights and broken promises being stopped, especially as inexplicably so many people who will be far worse off have voted for it. I feel sadness for many who have been taken in by the fake promises, but even more sad for those of us who did not vote for it but will have to live with the result of other people's decisions for a long time. This is bad enough, but to have people on here who should know better, tell me to 'get over it' or to crow about the result has upset me beyond belief. Merry Christmas.

Chestnut Fri 20-Dec-19 11:29:20

Greta - will you now accept that your vote to leave the EU may not turn out to be the right decision when all is said and done.
All will not be said and done for quite some time. It will take a few years before the benefits of leaving become apparent, and there will of course be some adverse effects too. Change always brings both good and bad, the question is whether the good outweighs the bad.

GillT57 Fri 20-Dec-19 11:32:08

* the question is whether the good outweighs the bad*, not quite the sunny uplands that the Johnson cabinet are promising eh? I am beyond despair that people can be so flippant about the future for me and my family.

Ginny42 Fri 20-Dec-19 11:55:46

Please stop repeating the myth that the country voted to leave. It was, as Greta says above, 52% of those who voted. Too narrow a margin, which has inevitably led to a large number of people feeling disenfranchised and that's where the anger resonates from.

Would you invest in anything and wait to see whether it works or not? I echo the sentiments of GillT57 and I dread the day when, as I've cited on other threads, my DGS becomes a 'foreigner'.

I note the plan to bring Drs and nurses from 'overseas' is the term used, in order to fulfil their promise of more professionals in the NHS. What a farce this has become.