I must admit I don't understand your logic Gaunt47. For a start, the UK didn't meekly accept everything the EU said. Secondly, if other countries took a more selective approach, that's an admission that our own government is at fault.
This is the bit I never understood either. I would have thought it obvious that the problem did not lie with the EU but with our governments if - and that is questionable if in some cases - other countries were being more selective.
In fact, the EU kept telling us, when we raised issues, how other countries were dealing with that issue but staying within the rules agreed by all countries. I always thought it was the laziness of our own government, the one we are now relying on, who did not make the most of our membership. It was, it seemed to me, far to easy for our MSM to back them in simply blaming the EU.
Add that to the fact that the man who is now Supreme Leader in this country lied about the EU without stopping, in order to keep his journalist's salary as high as possible and I can't see why people think as you do Gaunt.