I come from a very loving family. Mum, Dad and 5 siblings. Dad work hard as an engineer. Mum brought up the family, washed, cooked, cleaned, sewed, did the gardening and whatever else was needed.
Then my Dad passed away with a heart attack. Six kids under the age of 13.
My Mum was a very proud woman, and when she was advised by Social Services to ‘put the kids up for adoption and go and start your life again.’ she told the social worker where to go.
She was unqualified and took part time jobs to keep us together. She had 6 different jobs to keep us together, and pay the bills and run the house. On a low income, we as kids qualified for a free school meal. That meal Monday to Friday was heavenly. It also helped as our neighbour and Mums best friend Auntie Daphne was a school meals assistant who looked out for us. There was always a little bit extra if there was ‘leftovers’ after everyone had been fed.
Without the meals we would have been hungry. It was our main meal of the day. In the evening we’d have toast and egg or beans. Whatever Mum could afford. We still had a good childhood even after Dad had gone. The holidays to the caravan stopped and it was quickly sold. We were asked every year ‘What do you want for Christmas, some nicer food and goodies or gifts?’
Everyone of us plumped for our bellies. And we had the best Christmas’ because we were well fed and happy. Not because we had toys or presents galore.
So for me school meals was a lifesaver. It’s upsetting to read people saying women shouldn’t have kids for the government to feed them. In our situation we couldn’t summon my Dad back from the dead to pay for us to eat. My Mum did her best for us, and kept us all together as a family. The alternative would be to shove us all into Care, where the authorities would be paying for everything for us out of your taxes!