eazybee
What about the parents? Shouldn't they be taking responsibility?
I had to collect my 14 year old daughter from her schoolfriend's birthday party, because the girl's father had arrived with several young men and tipped a bottle of brandy into the homemade punch. My daughter was terrified, and wouldn't even wait in the house; she waited outside, and I could hear the shouting and drunken behaviour when I arrived.
That sounds awful eazybee!!
Thankfully in my experience, with both sons and daughters, I didn't come up against anything similar.