SillyNanny321
Unfortunately I was ‘persuaded’ by my Ex to take what would have been my pension from Local Govt as a lump sum! Most of which paid for things he wanted. I then spent time bringing up our DS as their were no childcare facilities then so only worked part time! Did not realise how this would affect me as a pensioner! No proper pension, no private pension & a couple of years ago was told by a young man that I am a drain on his income as I am living on benefits! Another of his friends then said ‘ yes but all the olds are well off aren't they & own their own houses’ accusing me of lying! At my age I am sick of being treated like a scrounger, sitting in the cold as I am careful of the amount I spend on heating! Even getting DLA does not help as it takes me over the limit if I ever need Care which I will have to pay for! So thanks Boris & friends for the paltry amount we pensioners are expected to live on being one of the lowest paid pensioners in Europe & other countries!
Exactly Sillynanny321 ....
I love the name as quite often that is said to me!
I am disabled and unable to work, and wasn't properly advised by my solicitor when I divorced and have missed out considerably as my ex husband didn't want his pension fund touched - unsurprisingly as it added massively to the eventual pot - I did get the majority of my house but still had to have a mortgage which in 5 years time runs out and at that point I will owe my bank £60k .... so, I am in the process of selling (which has been horrific as I am embroiled in the cyber attack scenario of the UK's largest Conveyancing firm, but that's another story!)
So, when it all goes through I am paying the bank back with my equity and will be buying a much cheaper property.
I have had a bit of support from my LA now since 2013, but in 2019 out of the blue I had a request from them to have a Financial Assessment. As it turned out, when they came my internet was down so as I had everything online we couldn't do anything, but we had a chat as I was worried as people on benefits struggle anyway, and was told that unless I had over £23,250 in savings I would be fine .... when they finally came to do it, imagine my horror when they said they wanted over £91 a week off me. I did an income and expenditure spreadsheet, and it left me with a deficit of several hundred pounds a month, so I appealed! That appeal took MONTHS, and I never paid them a penny. Then, my needs changed after having several major surgeries and I needed even more support, and then followed in January 2021, a further letter stating that I now owed them almost £200 a week for a basic wash and a few hours of help in the house! Appealed again, sent them another spreadsheet showing a deficit of over £500 a month if I paid them that amount!! The stress was immense, but I am savvy enough to challenge it - what worries me is that many disabled and vulnerable people out there aren't savvy enough!! I challenged it and by showing them receipts etc for things I have had to purchase because of my disability I got it down to a negligible amount. The same LA has just assessed my friend, and have not even told her that she can use her receipts for what is known as Disability Related Expenditure (DRE) at all, which is very underhand!!
However Sillynanny DLA isn't means tested, and that in itself shouldn't cause you to be over the limit, it would be your savings that do, but they actually DO count it as INCOME. Interestingly Jeremy Vine had on his radio programme someone talking about PIP and how difficult it was to get, and they had the charity SCOPE on there saying that on 'average, disabled people face about £580 a month of extra costs compared to non-disabled people", so in effect the LA's are taking away that money we need in order to provide me for example with a daily flannel wash, a once a week hair wash and a few hours help in the house, which is a disgrace!
Private message me if I can help anyone in this situation, as I have become quite an 'activist' around this issue ..... especially as it is discretionary for the LA's to actually charge anyone anything! There is one LA in England which chooses not to victimise it's most vulnerable residents, and charge them for support for their basic needs, and that is Hammersmith and Fulham.