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Lord Ashcroft’s book about Carrie ?

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FannyCornforth Sat 05-Feb-22 06:00:01

According to Ashcroft, Johnson is ‘mesmerised’ by his wife, and is nothing but a ‘puppet’.
Others say it’s misogynistic guff.
I wonder if Carrie is yet another to get the blame for Johnson’s behaviour; and that she’ll be getting the ‘chucked under a bus’ treatment soon.
Another of the narcissist’s victims…

Lucca Sat 05-Feb-22 06:03:52

Why is there a book about her ?!

FannyCornforth Sat 05-Feb-22 06:08:16

He’s written biographies of Cameron and Starmer too, as well as many others.
I suppose he thought that she was a suitable public figure for a biography

FannyCornforth Sat 05-Feb-22 06:11:33

I thought that we were due a ‘sensible’ thread about the current Mrs Johnson, as opposed to the ‘Paper Stripping’ one!

Galaxy Sat 05-Feb-22 06:38:00

Johnson has behaved in the same way for decades, pretty much all of his public life, long before he met Carrie.

FannyCornforth Sat 05-Feb-22 06:43:32

Exactly Galaxy
And I find the ‘mesmerised’ stuff difficult to believe.
There’s only one real object of love in Johnson’s life.
Wasn’t he recently heard talking about ‘buyer’s remorse’, when asked about his new wife?

BlueBelle Sat 05-Feb-22 06:50:11

But Galaxy put two power hungry people together and you get double the trouble think of any infamous couples and you can see how they may have been different without the other
I think she probably brings out the worst in him

FannyCornforth Sat 05-Feb-22 06:54:14

I’m trying to find out exactly what it is that she has done that is so dreadful.
I expect that she’ll be getting the flack for the Pen Farthing business; the parties; Spads leaving etc

Galaxy Sat 05-Feb-22 06:55:41

Johnson is deeply damaged by his childhood which is why he behaves as he does. When he leaves Carrie he will continue to behave in the same way but hopefully will not have much power by that stage.

FannyCornforth Sat 05-Feb-22 06:58:02

Yes,*Galaxy*, we’ve always been in firm agreement in what he is and why; and how that makes him so dangerous.
I do tend to think that she will leave him though

Riverwalk Sat 05-Feb-22 07:28:59

I'm not interested in their marriage but the idea that she's somehow responsible for his actions and behaviour is laughable.

He was a liar and low-life when married to the saintly Marina.

Galaxy Sat 05-Feb-22 07:43:12

Yes that's possible too fanny. Or its vaguely possible that he has got to the stage of life where he hasnt the energy to cheat, if you look at the likes of Rod Stewart it can happen, I am afraid I am too cynical to think its the case of finding 'the one' more a case of getting too old to play that game.

Ailidh Sat 05-Feb-22 07:44:33

Riverwalk

I'm not interested in their marriage but the idea that she's somehow responsible for his actions and behaviour is laughable.

He was a liar and low-life when married to the saintly Marina.

Indeed. It seems to be a given that The Woman in the life of a public man will be the one that gets the blame, viz. Megan, Duchess of Sussex who seems always vilified for her husband's alleged shortcomings.

Particularly in the case of a Prime Minister, if he (in this case) is so easily swayed by his spouse, then all the more is he not fit to lead the country,

Chocolatelovinggran Sat 05-Feb-22 07:45:09

I don't know about the way their marriage works, but I have wondered how her parents felt when she told them about her new romance, when they were first together. She tells them he is twice her age, twice (?) married, has a number of children, not all with his wife , and is politically at odds with her family (I understand). What did they say? Oh, lovely, darling? Or ??

BlueBelle Sat 05-Feb-22 07:50:16

No she’s not in the least responsible for his actions but she is probably part of the encouragement of his actions or even the spur of some of his actions even just a simple thing like the money spent on their decorations which spawned a lot of hatred do you really believe he would have even bothered to make his bed if he was living alone

I wonder how bad Myra Hindley would have been without the encouragement of her partner they ate off the sane plate and when they met it was foulness waiting to happen same could be said for Fred and rosemary west two like minded people come together whatever their main objective is it is doubled

Carrie appeared embroiled in many of the ‘parties’ if it was work only should she have been there !!!

I would never say she causes the problems but I bet she wears the trousers look at that fight recorded by the neighbour in the early days she appeared very much in charge I don’t think she’s a shrinking violet didn’t she bring some of her
co horts in for jobs at the start it all seems so long ago I ve forgotten the details now

No shes not THE problem but a part of it when a weak man meets a strong woman could go either way make or break

Pammie1 Sat 05-Feb-22 08:03:14

FannyCornforth

I’m trying to find out exactly what it is that she has done that is so dreadful.
I expect that she’ll be getting the flack for the Pen Farthing business; the parties; Spads leaving etc

Reportedly there have been power struggles between Carrie and certain aides. She’s been in attendance at many of the gatherings that Boris claimed were work events, so why was she there. Then there’s partying in the no 10 flat , reportedly to celebrate the departure of Cummings - complete with booze and karaoke She’s also given the access code to the number 10 flat to her mates and held get togethers in the flat while the PM’s red box full of confidential papers is on full display - although that’s mainly Boris’s fault, but some of her friends are journalists and there have reportedly been leaks.

BlueBelle Sat 05-Feb-22 08:06:59

Before I get taken the wrong way and shouted at I must add
I m not suggesting Carrie is equivalent of rosemary west just a means of showing that two like minded people together are stronger than one alone and depending what good or bad they do could make a bad or good situation better or wirse

Galaxy Sat 05-Feb-22 08:12:00

I think part of the problem is that a lot of the public really see Johnson a child, who is not responsible for himself. You can hear it in the way he is talked about and its partly why he is always called by his first name, although that's also down to his own manipulation of his image.

FannyCornforth Sat 05-Feb-22 08:19:47

Yes (again!) More Operation Save Big Dog envy

FannyCornforth Sat 05-Feb-22 08:21:12

It’s been Operation Save Big Dog all of his bloody life

Galaxy Sat 05-Feb-22 08:26:17

grin I used to in my despairing moments think what is the point of working hard, trying to do your job well etc, when I looked at both Johnson and Trump. But now I tend to think they are two of the unhappiest damaged men I have ever seen. Not that this excuses their actions.

MaizieD Sat 05-Feb-22 08:27:46

Johnson's first name is Al, not Boris and I have read that that is the name his family uses..'Boris' is all part of the fakery.

I thought this thread was a joke! Is there really a book about Carrie? She really shouldn't be given any encouragement. I think she's as appalling as her husband.

I think she'll leave him when he can no longer indulge her expensive tastes and offer her an exalted position.

FannyCornforth Sat 05-Feb-22 08:31:24

Yes, Maizie.
It’s very high profile in the press.
I think that it’s being serialised in the DM

Baggs Sat 05-Feb-22 08:44:38

I've read some of the thread (not all yet) and so far haven't found my tuppenceworth: (1) What does she see in him? and (2) Neither of them are behaving like Conservatives at the moment – all crazy taxes, promises of idiotic insufficient refunds, high government spending (often wasteful), etc.

It's a baffling match in that respect. But it's not just them. I don't feel we really have a Conservative government at the moment. You could switch to pre-Corbyn Labour and I reckon the big picture would be pretty similar even if details differed.

Baggs Sat 05-Feb-22 08:46:37

Ailidh

Riverwalk

I'm not interested in their marriage but the idea that she's somehow responsible for his actions and behaviour is laughable.

He was a liar and low-life when married to the saintly Marina.

Indeed. It seems to be a given that The Woman in the life of a public man will be the one that gets the blame, viz. Megan, Duchess of Sussex who seems always vilified for her husband's alleged shortcomings.

Particularly in the case of a Prime Minister, if he (in this case) is so easily swayed by his spouse, then all the more is he not fit to lead the country,

Yup.